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Abstract

The book describes in detail and intelligibly the unique method of Alexander Sviyash, which helps to change the attitude towards negative events and permanently eliminate them from life, get rid of many diseases and solve the most intricate family problems. The author's simple and accessible recommendations and the psychological exercises he offers have already helped millions of people overcome troubles, restore the joy of life, find happiness and well-being.

Introduction

What is this book about? It is about how we all live in a world of abundance. Our world has a lot of food, money, housing, cars, men and women, children, health, love, sex, fame, places to stay and everything else. The Creator created everything in abundance.

But then why does it happen that some people have something in abundance, while others do not have enough of it? And even if you have something in abundance, for example, money, then at the same time you may not have enough love or health. Or there is an abundance of love or health, but not enough money, and so on. And only rare people have everything they need, but there are very few of them. People call them lucky or lucky. In general, they believe that their happiness and success does not depend on them, but they are just lucky. Yes, and they themselves sometimes think so, not even suspecting that they created their happiness and luck for themselves.

Can anyone be one of those lucky ones? Is there anything he can do to make sure everything is the way he wants it to be? Maybe if he behaves like successful people.

Everything depends on you!

The idea that in order to be successful you have to behave like successful people do is not new. It is discussed and described in detail in many books. I won't do it again because the authors of the recommendations described the outer side of the command of successful people- how they work, how they plan their activities, how they talk, and so on. To some extent, these recommendations work - but only to the extent that the inner world of the reader coincides with the inner world and belief system of a successful person. And here, as you know, there can be a huge gap. You can endlessly identify your goals, plan your achievements, work 18 hours a day. But at the same time, if deep down you consider your boss to be an idiot who does not occupy his place, then the results of your efforts will be zero or even negative, that is, you will be demoted or even fired.

Or you decorate yourself and develop communication skills to attract the attention of men and arrange your personal life. And they, as luck would have it, completely disappear from your horizon.

Why, because outwardly you did everything that a successful person should do, and suddenly such a defeat?

Introduction

What is this book about? It is about how we all live in a world of abundance. Our world has a lot of food, money, housing, cars, men and women, children, health, love, sex, fame, places to stay and everything else. The Creator created everything in abundance.

But then why does it happen that some people have something in abundance, while others do not have enough of it? And even if you have something in abundance, for example, money, then at the same time you may not have enough love or health. Or there is an abundance of love or health, but not enough money, and so on. And only rare people have everything they need, but there are very few of them. People call them lucky or lucky. In general, they believe that their happiness and success does not depend on them, but they are just lucky. Yes, and they themselves sometimes think so, not even suspecting that they created their happiness and luck for themselves.

Can anyone be one of those lucky ones? Is there anything he can do to make sure everything is the way he wants it to be? Maybe if he behaves like successful people.

Everything depends on you!

The idea that in order to be successful you have to behave like successful people do is not new. It is discussed and described in detail in many books. I won't do it again because the authors of the recommendations described the outer side of the command of successful people- how they work, how they plan their activities, how they talk, and so on. To some extent, these recommendations work - but only to the extent that the inner world of the reader coincides with the inner world and belief system of a successful person. And here, as you know, there can be a huge gap. You can endlessly identify your goals, plan your achievements, work 18 hours a day. But at the same time, if deep down you consider your boss to be an idiot who does not occupy his place, then the results of your efforts will be zero or even negative, that is, you will be demoted or even fired.

Or you decorate yourself and develop communication skills to attract the attention of men and arrange your personal life. And they, as luck would have it, completely disappear from your horizon.

Why, because outwardly you did everything that a successful person should do, and suddenly such a defeat?

And the point here is that in addition to the external aspects of behavior, there are some very important internal rules that each person must follow in the process of interacting with other people. They are quite simple, but no one tells us about them. And if we violate them - and this is constantly done by millions of people, then Life will give us its lessons. She will teach us, and these lessons are not very pleasant - like a bad mark for an unfulfilled lesson at school. If we do not understand these lessons, then Life will block most of our efforts on the way to the desired goals. And then, no matter how energetic you are, no matter what efforts you make on the way to your goal, the desired result will be closed to you. You will not be the darling of Life, you will be a laggard, a loser.

And vice versa, if you understand her simple lessons, do not violate some of her requirements, then you will become her favorite. And being a favorite of Life is very nice, as you know. Most of your goals will be achieved as if by themselves. You will live in inner harmony, joy. Fear of the future will leave you - will Life allow something bad to be done to its pet?

It looks like a miracle, but it's reality. And this miracle can become your constant companion, that is, you can easily move into the category of those people who are called lucky. It now depends only on you!

I do not know exactly how this happens and who exactly helps a person who observes some simple rules of living in our world. People call this invisible and caring patron God, Angels, Higher power or something else, whichever you prefer. Our methodology is non-religious, so we will simply use the concept of Life, and you can invest in it any interpretation that is convenient for you, corresponding to your belief system.

Since readers are usually interested in the personality of the author, I will tell you a little about myself. I was born in Russia in a simple family, went to school, worked, received two higher educations.

What is this book about? It is about how we all live in a world of abundance. Our world has a lot of food, money, housing, cars, men and women, children, health, love, sex, fame, places to stay and everything else. The Creator created everything in abundance.

But then why does it happen that some people have something in abundance, while others do not have enough of it? And even if you have something in abundance, such as money, then at the same time you may not have enough love or health. Or there is an abundance of love or health, but not enough money, and so on. And only rare people have everything they need, but there are very few of them. People call them lucky or lucky. In general, they believe that their happiness and success does not depend on them, but they are just lucky. Yes, and they themselves sometimes think so, not even suspecting that they created their happiness and luck for themselves.

Can anyone be one of those lucky ones? Is there anything he can do to make sure everything is the way he wants it to be? Maybe if he behaves like successful people.

Everything depends on you!

The idea that in order to be successful you have to behave like successful people do is not new. It is discussed and described in detail in many books. I won't do it again because the authors of the recommendations described the outer side of the command of successful people- how they work, how they plan their activities, how they talk, and so on. To some extent, these recommendations work - but only to the extent that the inner world of the reader coincides with the inner world and belief system of a successful person. And here, as you know, there can be a huge gap. You can endlessly identify your goals, plan your achievements, work 18 hours a day. But at the same time, if deep down you consider your boss to be an idiot who does not occupy his place, then the results of your efforts will be zero or even negative, that is, you will be demoted or even fired.

Or you decorate yourself and develop communication skills to attract the attention of men and arrange your personal life. And they, as luck would have it, completely disappear from your horizon.

Why, because outwardly you did everything that a successful person should do, and suddenly such a defeat?

And the point here is that in addition to the external aspects of behavior, there are some very important internal rules that each person must follow in the process of interacting with other people. They are quite simple, but no one tells us about them. And if we violate them - and this is constantly done by millions of people, then Life will give us its lessons. She will teach us, and these lessons are not very pleasant - like a bad mark for an unfulfilled lesson at school. If we do not understand these lessons, then Life will block most of our efforts on the way to the desired goals. And then, no matter how energetic you are, no matter what efforts you make on the way to your goal, the desired result will be closed to you. You will not be the darling of Life, you will be a laggard, a loser.

And vice versa, if you understand her simple lessons, do not violate some of her requirements, then you will become her favorite. And being a favorite of Life is very nice, as you know. Most of your goals will be achieved as if by themselves. You will live in inner harmony, joy. Fear of the future will leave you - will Life allow your pet to do something bad?

It looks like a miracle, but it is reality. And this miracle can become your constant companion, that is, you can easily move into the category of those people who are called lucky. It now depends only on you!

I do not know exactly how this happens and who exactly helps a person who observes some simple rules of living in our world. People call this invisible and caring patron God, Angels, Higher powers, or something else, to whom it is more familiar. Our methodology is non-religious, so we will simply use the concept of Life, and you can invest in it any interpretation that is convenient for you, corresponding to your belief system.

A few words about the author

Since readers are usually interested in the personality of the author, I will tell you a little about myself. I was born in Russia in a simple family, went to school, worked, received two higher educations.

I didn't have huge failures and huge achievements in my life that you can read about in other books. That is, I did not bring my body to a fatal illness, so that later I would be cured by heroic efforts. I was not in prison, I was not bankrupt, I was not on the verge of suicide, I was not persecuted by the KGB. Of course, I had difficulties at work, conflicts with management, sometimes reaching the point of being fired. I had great difficulty in family life which eventually led to a divorce, and now I have a second marriage. That is, I lived an ordinary life, which millions of people live.

The only thing that has always distinguished me is the increased inquisitiveness of the mind and always tried to understand: why is everything happening like this? And how can you create something new and useful? I studied a lot and I am studying now. All my efforts were aimed at understanding the patterns that govern our lives. If most people are told “do this”, they do it, and they are quite happy with it, then this never suited me, and I always asked: “Why this way, and not differently?” If no explanation was given to me, I looked for it myself. That is, for me there are no authorities, except for the Truth, which I am looking for in all ways available to me. And this process, as you know, is endless.

At first, my efforts were directed to the field of technology - I tried to understand how technical inventions are created. As a result, I became an inventor, co-author of the book "The Birth of an Invention", received a degree.

Later, I became very interested in psychology, and then mysticism, esotericism, spiritual practices, which created a feeling of unlimited possibilities and unlimited power. For several years I was intensively engaged in the development of superpowers - clairvoyance, the ability to read information from photographs, aura vision, astral travel. In principle, every person has innate superpowers, you just need to develop them, but this takes many years. Later I realized that in our real life no use for these hidden talents. Technique has completely replaced almost all superpowers, and they have faded away from people as unnecessary. In our world, superpowers can be used either in healing, or you need to show tricks. None of these areas of activity carried me away, and I stopped doing this.

More precisely, I began to look for how a person can use the huge hidden opportunities given to him from birth in the ordinary life that he lives. That is, how to become a magician and wizard, without doing special meditations for many hours, repeating mantras or prayers, without changing your usual rhythm of life.

Everything that I found, I experienced on myself, and then I told other people about it in books, lectures and trainings.

As a result, today I am the head of several enterprises - the Center for Positive Psychology "Reasonable Way" (Moscow) and the American Academy of Success "Reasonable Way" (Boston), editor-in-chief of the magazine "Reasonable World". I am the author of nine books that have been published in over 5 million copies, translated into several languages. I am a candidate of sciences, a full member of one of the Academies, the author of several inventions. I have a wonderful wife, I travel with lectures and trainings all over the world - in general, I created the life I wanted for myself.

You can achieve everything

And no one bothers you to achieve any desired success, except for yourself. Countless people around the world have already applied the suggestions here and their lives have changed in the most miraculous way. In confirmation, I quote extracts from letters received from my readers.

For several years now I have been reading and trying to apply the literature on psychology. But your book "How to be ..." shocked me with its stateliness, accuracy and informativeness. It will replace dozens of volumes of other manuals. (Leonid Rothstein, Jerusalem)

…Having read two of your books, I would like to continue the knowledge of life and myself. "In the East, simplicity of presentation is considered the highest achievement, for simplicity testifies to the clarity of understanding." I think that this statement fits your principles of presentation, I am very glad about it! I would like to thank you and wish you not to stop there! (Vasilyeva Natalya Vladimirovna, Tula)

Accept huge gratitude for the most simple and clear books. This is a magnificent and accessible "Guide to Action" for almost any person (Romanyuk Evgenia Nikolaevna, Moscow).

Your book has been a turning point in my life! I want to thank you personally, Alexander, and God from the bottom of my heart for sending you to this earth! Thanks to your wonderful book, I became more familiar with the laws of this life. You gave explanations why you need to do it this way and not otherwise, and what will happen if you do it differently. (Barinov Alexander, Tver)

Please accept my sincere gratitude for your books! They turned my life around. My heart is now calm and blessed! Thanks to you, I realized what a strong Angel I have, to whom I express my gratitude in this written form. Thank you! But this is only the beginning, because there is a great desire to know yourself and the world more and achieve your goals correctly. (Mellum Leonia Eduardovna, St. Petersburg).

It was with great pleasure that I read your books, which accidentally fell into my hands, and I realized that this is what I need, what I was looking for. These books in an easy and accessible way explained to me many reasons for my problems that I had no idea about. And many of my friends and acquaintances also liked them, even the opinion was expressed that if such books had existed before, then many mistakes in life could have been avoided. Thank you for them! (Bernatsky Pavel, Tambov).

One could cite hundreds more similar excerpts from letters from readers, but I suggest that you draw your own conclusions.

Background of the methodology

In principle, most of the requirements that apply to human behavior in our world have long been well known. They are the basis of almost all religions. Another thing is that in religious sources they are written in a complex and not always understandable language for us, and are always not logically substantiated. Apparently, this was enough for people in the past. And today the principle of "believe and do" is not enough, people demand an understanding of how and what is happening around us, why it is necessary to follow these rules, and not others.

Therefore, it is not bad to have the requirements that Life imposes on a person, set out in a simple and accessible modern language. That is what I have tried to do in this book.

Everything is available to man

Our studies have shown that a person can and has the right to receive any gifts from Life, he can set any goals for himself and achieve their fulfillment. In fact, many authors write about this. But these recommendations, unfortunately, do not always work. And we found the reason why it happens!

It turns out that before proceeding with the implementation of the events he needs, a person must enter into harmonious interaction with the outside world, accept this world as it is. That is, you need to stop condemning him for some, in your opinion, imperfections. If this is not the case, then the person violates the requirements that Life imposes on his behavior. And violation causes consequences in the form of troubles, illnesses, accidents, blocking of efforts. But as soon as you stop violating these requirements, all the troubles leave your life in the most wonderful way. Life begins to delight you, you become her favorite!

In this book you will find a detailed story about how you can learn to live without claims and other experiences in our seemingly imperfect world. And how to make your life only please you!

We give information

In our reasoning, we will not be able to get by with only those concepts that we were taught at school or another educational institution because the knowledge offered there is always based on science. And our science is materialistic, that is, it considers real only what can be measured, touched, decomposed into particles, etc. Meanwhile, in our life there are always phenomena that modern science doesn't explain at all. Most likely, over time, she will significantly expand the range of her knowledge about the world around her and explain what she today denies or classifies as miracles. But we will not wait for this, but right now we are using in our reasoning the knowledge that is concentrated in ancient religious and esoteric (that is, hidden) systems.

That is, we will use some concepts from these knowledge systems, which today do not have a strict scientific explanation. In particular, at the very beginning of our reasoning, we use the term "karma" (as a manifestation of the universal law of cause and effect). But this will not be the karma that many mystics scare us with. More precisely, that one, but we will give you a new look at the inevitability and predestination of the events of our life. It turns out that in most cases there is no need to pay all your life for some past sins. And all our troubles stem not from the past unknown to us, but from those mistakes that we have just made or continue to make now. Sometimes you can get rid of many problems in just one day. And even in one hour. But for a minute - hardly.

A person, even with the most difficult fate, can drastically change his life for the better - if, of course, he wants to do it. This is his right. And we act only as a source of information, explaining why certain problems or difficulties arise in his life, how he creates them for himself. We tell, and you draw conclusions. Many people, with the help of this system of views, have revised their attitude to Life, and as a result, their personal lives have improved, a desired job or money has appeared, a business has developed, or illnesses have disappeared. So we offer, and then you decide. If you want, take it and use it. If you don't want it, forget it.

But keep in mind that in the latter case, you will become like a savage who does not want to study the information already known to mankind and attributes all his misfortunes to "evil spirits." Although people have long learned to deal with many such "spirits" by freely kindling a fire, curing diseases, using reliable Vehicle etc.

This book is not materialistic

As already mentioned, in our reasoning, we proceed from the fact that in addition to the world of the Manifested, that is, what can be felt, measured or observed, there is also an invisible world, or “unmanifested”. We refer to the “unmanifested” world everything that a person still does not know about the environment around us. Probably, over time, science will reveal all the secrets, but so far this is far from it. We do not know exactly how everything works there, there are many versions on this score. We proceed from the fact that this very “unmanifested” world exists and you can interact with it for your own benefit.

Therefore, in this book we will actively use the concept of Life (it is also the Higher Forces, God, the Creator), meaning by it those really existing invisible forces that influence our reality. Who it is, we don't know. There are many religious, philosophical or esoteric models of the structure of the unmanifested world. We are satisfied with any. There are no prayers or calls to perform specific religious rituals in our methodology - in this respect it is more like a completely materialistic psychological theory. But we are considering ways of practical interaction with the unmanifested world - in this our methodology is not at all materialistic. Therefore, both believers and atheists calmly use it.

In general, it is compatible with any religion, because it is outside of religion. You can safely perform the rituals of your religion and use this technique, there are no contradictions here.

Application area

The information presented in this book explains well no more than 80% of the negative events taking place in the world. There are another 20% of cases that can be safely attributed to special cases that require separate study and explanation. We mean non-standard people whose life is very different from the life of the majority. These are very rich people, prominent politicians, movie and pop superstars, pathological criminals, maniacs, childhood invalids. But their life, their problems are purely individual and fundamentally different from the problems of most people. Therefore, we excluded them from consideration.

Also, we will not consider cases of death of people in mass disasters, in terrorist acts and other disasters - this is outside the proposed methodology.

We'll consider possible reasons appearance typical negative situations encountered in the lives of most people. These are illnesses, failures, troubles in personal life, accidents, etc. Our experience shows that the approach proposed in the book allows you to get rid of such problems very quickly and permanently. And get rid of problems yourself, without resorting to outside help. And once the problems leave you, then only the joy of a pleasant and successful life will remain.

No special requirements

One of the advantages of the proposed method is that it is maximally adapted to the rhythm of life. modern man. It does not require special abilities, special time, separate room etc. You can use it at any free time that you have. Our exercises can be used when you are driving in a car or on a train, when you are waiting for someone, or when you have a minute of free time. This is very convenient, because you do not need to change the usual rhythm of life.

Use of the pronoun "we"

Later in the text of the book, I will present the presentation using the pronoun "we" instead of "I". This is because I am speaking here on my own behalf and on behalf of the team of my assistants and colleagues who have been developing and promoting this system of views with me for many years. I sincerely thank them for their help and participation in the development of the methodology.

This edition is a shortened version of the complete method of Intelligent Life

This book is the fourth edition of a manuscript written back in 1998. Many years have passed since then, but the mass of people still do not live the way they want. They are not favorites, but stepchildren of Life. But they have a real opportunity to make their lives more harmonious and successful, they just need to reconsider some of their beliefs and attitudes. Therefore, the book is needed by many more people.

This book brings together the basic ideas that we call the Intelligent Life methodology. IN last years it has received great development in many countries. We have a lot of recommendations and examples on how to apply this approach in various areas of life - in personal and family life, in business and at work, in relation to your health. All this is summarized under the general title Methods (or Technology) of Intelligent Life, and it is fully set out in books, on the website www.sviyash.ru or on the blog www.sviyashA.ru

Many people in many countries of the world are already using this technique, and their lives have changed dramatically for the better, previously inaccessible goals have become everyday reality for them.

If you like what you read in the pages of this book, then you can familiarize yourself with the rest of our Intelligent Life Technology materials and use them to achieve your goals. The Center for Positive Psychology "Reasonable Way" will help you along this path with its trainings and personal consultations of our specialists.

So I invite you to make your life a little more conscious and happy! Good luck on this path!

Sincerely, Alexander Sviyash.

Chapter 1. How to Understand the Lessons of Life

In the first part of the book, we will learn to understand what Life wants from us, what lessons it gives us and how to become its favorite. In the following chapters, we will talk about what conclusions will need to be drawn from these lessons and how to properly use the fact that you have become Life's pet.

Always look at what you have instead of what you have lost. And no matter how good or bad you feel, you should wake up every day and give thanks for life, because someone somewhere is desperately fighting for it.

1. Pain is part of growth.

Sometimes life closes doors because it's time to move. And that's good, because we often don't start moving unless circumstances force us to. When times get tough, remind yourself that no pain comes without a purpose.

Move on from what hurts you, but never forget the lesson she teaches you.

Just because you are struggling doesn't mean you are failing. Every big success demands that there be a worthy struggle. Good things take time. Stay patient and confident. Everything will be alright; probably not in a moment, but eventually everything will be ... Remember - there are two types of pain: pain that hurts, and pain that changes you. As you go through life, instead of resisting it, help it develop you.

2. Everything in life is temporary.

Whenever it rains, you know it will end. Every time you get hurt, the wound heals. After darkness there is always light - you are reminded of this every morning, but nevertheless, it often seems that the night will last forever. It will not happen.

Nothing lasts forever. So, if everything is good right now, enjoy it. It won't last forever. If it's bad, don't worry, because it won't last forever either.

Just because life isn't easy right now doesn't mean you can't laugh. Just because something bothers you doesn't mean you can't smile. Every moment gives you a new beginning and a new ending. Every second you get a second chance. Just use it.

3. Worrying and complaining won't change anything.

Those who complain the most achieve the least. It is always better to try to do something bigger and fail than to try to succeed without doing anything.

Nothing is over if you lose; it's over if you're really only complaining.

If you believe in something, keep trying. And no matter what happens in the end, remember that true happiness only begins to come when you stop complaining about your problems and start being grateful for all the problems you don't have.

4. Your scars are symbols of your power.

Never be ashamed of the scars life has left on you. A scar means that there is no more pain and the wound has healed. This means that you have conquered the pain, learned the lesson, become stronger and have progressed. The scar is a tattoo of triumph. Don't let scars hold you hostage. Don't let them make you live in fear. Start seeing them as a sign of strength. Jalaladdin Rumi once said:

"Through the wounds, light enters you." Nothing can be closer to the truth. Out of suffering came the strongest souls; the most influential people in this big world marked with scars. Look at your scars as a slogan: “YES! I DID IT! I survived and I have scars to prove it! And now I have a chance to become even stronger.”

5. Every little battle is a step forward

In life, patience is not the same as waiting; it is the ability to keep good mood by working hard on your dreams. So if you're going to try, go all the way. Otherwise, there is no point in starting. This may mean a loss of stability and comfort for a while, and perhaps even your mind. You may have to not eat what you are used to, or not sleep as much as you are used to, for weeks on end.

This may mean changing your comfort zone.
It can mean sacrificing relationships and everything you know.
This may mean the appearance of ridicule.
It could mean loneliness...

Loneliness, however, is the gift that makes many things possible. You will get the space you need. Everything else is a test of your endurance, of how much you really want to achieve your goal. And if you want it, you will do it in spite of setbacks and disagreements. And every step you take will feel better than you can imagine. You will understand that the struggle is not an obstacle on the way, it is the way.

6. Other people's negative reactions are not your problem.

Be confident when bad things surround you. Smile when others try to beat you. This - easy way support your own enthusiasm. When other people talk bad about you, keep being yourself. Never let anyone's talk change you. You can't take everything too personally, even if it seems personal. Don't think that people are doing things for you. They do things for themselves.

First of all, never change in order to impress someone who says you're not good enough. Change if it makes you better and leads you to a brighter future.

People will talk no matter what you do or how well you do it. Worry about yourself, not about the opinions of others. If you believe in something, don't be afraid to fight for it. Great strength comes from overcoming the impossible.

7. What should happen will happen

You gain strength when you stop screaming and complaining and start smiling and appreciating your life. There are blessings hidden in every struggle you face, but you must be willing to open your heart and mind to see them. You cannot make things happen. You can only try.
At a certain point, you have to let go of the situation and allow what is meant to happen.

Love your life, trust your intuition, take risks, lose and find happiness, learn through experience. It's a long ride. You must stop worrying, wondering and doubting at any moment. Laugh, enjoy every moment of your life. You may not know exactly where you intended to go, but you will eventually arrive where you need to be.

8. Just keep moving

Don't be afraid to get angry. Don't be afraid to love again. Don't let the cracks in your heart turn into scars. Realize that strength is increasing every day. Understand that courage is beautiful.
Find in your heart what makes others smile.

Remember that you don't need many people in your life, so don't strive to have more "friends". Be strong when the going gets tough. Remember that the universe always does what is right.

Admit when you are wrong and learn from it. Always look back, see what you have achieved and be proud of yourself. Don't change for anyone if you don't want to. Do more. Live easier. And never stop moving.

"What do we do when things don't go our way?" - this question at least once in a lifetime was asked by almost every inhabitant of the planet Earth. A popular Russian psychologist, Alexander Sviyash, a master of positive thinking, will try to tell you in his book how to overcome black stripe in your existence and come out to its bright, sunny side.

Sometimes it seems that some have everything you can dream of, but we, as always, are not lucky in anything. Small troubles constantly follow our heels and we do not feel happy. A recognized psychologist teaches us in his scientific work“What to do when everything is not the way you want” to discard envy and take a closer look around. Our paradox is that we are absolutely unable to realize that we are living well. We see the sun overhead, we don't get sick. Other people are deprived even of these, it would seem, such simple pleasures .... We do not appreciate what is given to us from above, therefore Life throws up problems for us so that we can learn from them. However, we do not draw conclusions from the repeated tangle of failures, we continue to complain further, although in fact, we should not cry into the vest, the main thing is to act and change.

Learn to live in harmony with environment to accept this world with all its advantages and disadvantages - this is what Alexander Sviyash sees as the main goal of human existence. Only by putting this worldview into practice can you experience happiness. And when the Universe sees that you have discarded unnecessary negative emotions, it will begin to bestow its priceless gifts on you. Only by changing, completely reconsidering our vision of the world and the people around us, can our existence be programmed for a more positive program. With the help of information gleaned from the book "What to do when everything is not as you want", you can not only get rid of various troubles, but also recover from chronic diseases. After all, our thoughts are material, and only we have the choice of what to pull from the outside into our lives - good or evil, love or hatred.

Our expectations about certain events, ideas about people who should behave in certain situations, the way we want, and things like that - it all drags us down. We are not the center of the universe. And no one is obliged to conform to our ideas. If a certain person treats us well, rejoice. If not, don't dwell on such things. The psychological manual “What to do when everything is not as you want” tells that an old resentment and the like cause irreparable harm to our body. And you need to get rid of negative emotions. Alexander Sviyash, in his psychological manual, will teach you how, with the help of theory and useful, practical exercises, to establish harmony with yourself and the world around you.

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