What if a girl wants to be friends. How to get your girlfriend back after the phrase "Let's be friends"? The above may imply several scenarios for the development of your relationship.
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Seeing a sad guy, it is often easy to guess what is the reason for his frustration - the girlfriend said let's stay friends. Men of any age who have little experience of communicating with the opposite sex, who have not yet learned to understand women, often react to this phrase with total depression: they go into a binge, cry into a pillow, complain to friends and relatives, try to return their beloved, etc. The phrase "let's remain friends" is perceived only as a catastrophe of a universal scale. Although, if you think about it, nothing terrible actually happened AT ALL. Below I will talk about how to easily and simply survive DOD (let's be friends) and start living a full fun life after a couple of hours or maximum - days, after this phrase.
The girl said let's be friends. What to do
If the girl said let's be friends, you don't need to panic. In a pickup truck, this phenomenon is well known. Conventionally, it is called "The girl announced the DOD." Believe me, this will happen more than once in your life, but after reading this article, you will be ready for it.
If a girl told you “let's be friends” - this means that you are no longer attracted to her as a sexual partner, or she did not consider you as such at all. It is important to understand this information in this way and to accept it courageously. It is clear that this is painful, unpleasant, but the bitter truth is always better than sweet lies - remember this.
The second thing you need to accept is that you can't get her back. Not because it's unrealistic, it's just that if she threw you once, she will throw you a second time, or she will manipulate you all her life, and this is humiliating and wrong.
Third, your brain is now inadequate. He is frantically looking for reasons why your beloved left you, and options for how to get her back. You will not find the reasons - do not try in vain. She can tell you that she doesn’t feel a spark between you and you will try to ignite this spark, when in reality she has just been sleeping with another man for a week, who she likes an order of magnitude more.
Why can't you get your ex back?
The option of her return should not be considered at all. Firstly, it is humiliating and unworthy of a normal man. Secondly, now it will cost you a lot of time, resources and nerves, and all for what? To make her snort and turn her nose? Usually guys try to get the girl back - they spend a lot of money, they don't sleep at night - but they still can't get it back. Simply because she fell in love with another man. Then the guy, after a while, usually calms down and realizes that it is unrealistic to return her and begins to live his own life. So isn’t it easier to skip all this suffering and waste of resources and immediately start living normally, burning out energy to others, more useful way, for example, through sports. It is a mistake to think that your situation is unique, and the woman is the only one. Believe me, after a breakup with a girl, every man is convinced of this if he has little experience in communicating with women.
Practice shows that some guys, spending a lot of resources, return the former after other men. Or they themselves then return, as they were abandoned by their lover or something did not work out there. Some ask for forgiveness in tears, others, on the contrary, return like they are doing you a favor (especially if the guy did not stop trying to return her). But all the same, such couples then break up and do not last long, since the guy realizes (if not immediately, then over time) that he was betrayed, exchanged, and returned purely because he is a spare and convenient option. For a man, this is humiliating. It is better to endure pain once than to feel humiliated all your life and allow yourself to be pushed around.
What exactly to do if a girl announced DOD
If a girl told you let's stay friends, you have to do only two things: urgently, right now, go in for sports, and start meeting other women. This is enough to overcome your attachment to the former, at least the first symptoms of her in just a couple of hours. Sitting at home and loading up, going to a bar, crying to friends, etc. Absolutely forbidden! This will only exacerbate an already bad mood.
If you were declared DOD, urgently go and meet 3-5 other girls. It is optimal to make 10 approaches to strangers. It’s better not to concentrate on one now - after the breakup, it will seem worse than the former. Try to get to know as many people as you can. The first 2-3 approaches may be difficult for you - come with strength. Breaking up with the woman you love is a situation that gives a lot of energy. Use it correctly - step over your fear and reluctance to get acquainted, and seduce other women.
The second is sports. Work out at the gym for at least 2 hours every day. You can go to football or do long-distance races. But it’s even better to go in for boxing or wrestling - there you will quickly beat all the nonsense out of yourself.
If you start actively getting to know girls, doing at least 5-10 sets a day, you will forget your ex - if not in a couple of hours, then in a week for sure. Not in the sense that you will no longer remember who she is and what you had with her, it’s just that your feelings for her will cool down and you will begin to treat her like the most ordinary girl. Many guys do not want this, because they are rushing with a heady feeling of love and are warmed by the hope of returning their beloved. But remember that one feeling is always replaced by another, so in any case, heady love is guaranteed to you, only with a different, better girl.
- No alcohol. Drinking, even moderate, only increases suffering and provokes you to inappropriate actions. Silence the inner discomfort from breaking up with sports and sex with other women;
- other girls. Do not look immediately after parting with your beloved for the next girlfriend for life. Now your task is to drown out feelings with sex. Just fuck for your pleasure with many women - with all those who fall for you and you more or less like. Enjoy your freedom - no serious relationship;
- No suffering. The former is not the best and not the only one. An ordinary girl, in some ways worse than many others. Remember how you felt about her before you met. What has changed since then? She gave you and was tender, spoke words of love? Yes, others can do the same. Moreover, she can be with a sexier figure, and cooking is tastier. A new partner is always better than the previous one - this is an axiom. Otherwise, after a breakup, people would never build relationships with anyone again.
Don't worry, you'll have more beautiful woman, And happy love, and family being, and stability. You just need to make an effort and all this can happen in a couple of days. Or years - if you continue to sour over the former. good girls actually a lot, a lot. In your city, on your street, there are dozens of them every day. Start meeting other girls, do it a lot and often, and you will see that there are many pretty young ladies around, much better than your ex, who will appreciate you much more than she does.
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My name is Vladimir Shamshurin and you won’t believe it, but I understand you more than perfectly, I myself, in my distant youth, came across such a situation a couple of times. And I was very hurt by this, because I was in love, and it was completely incomprehensible why she did this to me.
Two words of digression - I once courted a girl, even before I started in a pickup truck, I really liked her. I looked after her as best I could - I did everything she wanted, I was gentle and sweet with her, I was afraid to spoil everything. I even sealed her apartment doors with flowers and notes, I really got confused.
And this girl said let's be friends at some "beautiful" moment in my life. I remember how the sun just went out for me that day. At the same time, it was even more offensive for me that she, in parallel with me, met with some guy who obviously did not treat her as well as I did. On the contrary, he was rude to her and neglected her. Here is such a story)))). Now I look at it all with a smile. By the way, if you want to know why it works this way, then read articles on how women choose men and what kind of guys girls like. And also, on this topic, I have several excellent training videos on my YouTube channel, which you can watch right now by clicking here. In these videos, I cover this topic in more detail. I don’t really like writing on the blog, I’m still a lazy person, it’s easier for me to speak on camera;). So, I'd rather watch than read.
Yes, and in your life, there are probably examples of how a girl you are in love with, or who you really like, does not let you get close, but communicates with a completely unworthy (in your opinion) guy and not at all friendly.
The problem is that girls do not always offer only friendship, and I understand why they do this - because you do not translate the relationship into a closer channel, you pull with kisses and sex (of course, without wanting to). Sometimes even the guys themselves initially say - "let's be friends", and then they themselves suffer.
And it often happens like this - you have a girlfriend, maybe even, but you like another one and you yourself offered to be friends with her, and despite the fact that you hint at closeness to her at any opportunity - your hints by themselves will not solve anything, because they are not backed by action.
In general, I think that the so-called “friendship” is such a polite form of refusal, that is, they don’t tell you - “I don’t want to communicate with you anymore, I’m not interested in you as a man”, they just offer you to become friends. And you, naively, think (well, not you, this is just an example) that a little time will pass, and the girl will finally see that same prince in you, understand and take you into her arms.
Of course, there are chances to fix everything, but they are not great. Read to the end and find out. And you know how it happens - you are friends with a girl, she somehow calls you one fine day, or rather at three o'clock at night and says - “Can you help me? I lost my wallet here and I can’t leave the club, can you pick me up?”
And you rush in the middle of the night to the other end of the city, thinking that now you will earn one more plus in your piggy bank to let you down. But in fact, she was visiting another guy and having sex, she just decided to leave in the middle of the night, and he didn’t even give her a taxi, and she doesn’t want to spend her money.
The truth is that the girl says let's be friends only you and no one else is to blame!!! After reading this article, you will understand why it is so and agree with me, and most importantly, you will start doing something to change the situation, and you will never step on this rake again.
Here's an example of what happens if you don't touch, arouse a girl and don't have sex with her in time.
Another mini story. But this one is more brutal. I fell in love with one girl, also in Samara. And she is in me. What hooked her - now I can say for sure - when I met her, I behaved as if I did not care at all about the result of our acquaintance, I was rude. I don’t know why, maybe I wasn’t in the mood, but I was rude to her (although, usually I behaved like a cute girl with girls))))))).
She was very hooked and interested. We started dating, met 5 times, and one evening she says to me - “Come to me, I’ll give you delicious tea.” I agreed. We came to her. I must say that before that we did not even kiss or hug. She fed me a delicious dinner, went to the bathroom and, after that, walked around the house already in a beautiful translucent dressing gown.
We then went into the room, I sat down on the sofa, she sat down next to me, as if leaning on me. But, the whole joke is that I just sat there doing nothing, although she rubbed herself slightly against me. I just didn’t know what to do, or pissed, I don’t remember now.
In general, after about half an hour, she lost all hope that there would be sex and told me - “Well, that's it, you probably have to go, because there is already a lot of time.” And I left, hoping to see her again tomorrow. Now I understand that she had a real disappointment, because in the beginning I showed myself as an alpha male, and later on I could not even take her! What happened after that?
There was no such thing here that the girl offered friendship, she just started to merge, she began to take the phone less and less when I called her, she began to excuse herself from the meeting ... Although until the moment when she invited me to visit, everything was different - she told me Constantly texting and calling. In the end, she completely disappeared. Here is a story that illustrates the essence of the problem.
And the most seemingly stupid thing is that when you try to touch a girl on a date, she starts to say - “Don't. You don't have to spoil everything. We don't know much yet. I don't want. I'm not ready for this yet. Let's just sit down."
But the whole paradox is that if you stop touching her, then she sends you after that, as we say in D.O.D. - Let's be friends. Where is the logic?
And the logic is this - the girl says let's stay friends if you don't touch her and listen to what she tells you. This is a kind of unconscious test whether you are a strong male or weak. That is, do you do what you want, or what the woman tells you. More on this in the article what kind of men girls like.
And also these “don’t touch me” is an attempt not to seem like an accessible woman and relieve yourself of responsibility. It is very important for a girl not to seem easily accessible, it is important for her not to give (sex or phone number is not important), but to be taken from her.
Therefore, girls react so coldly to your attempt to meet if there are witnesses nearby, but if you take her aside, the reaction will be much warmer. I talk about this in detail at my pickup training for men in Moscow.
Look at how a cat and a cat mate - the cat is on top, the cat yells and sort of breaks out, and the cat holds her neck with his teeth from behind. It would seem that the cat is not pleased and she wants to run away. But, if now this cat is taken away from the cat and locked in the room with a key, then she will run in circles around the room and shout meow meow - “Let me go to the cat.” It's the same for women! Read about this in the article what kind of men women like.
Let's be friends, what should we do? Above, we figured out why this happens, and now let's talk about what can be done. Ras you are in such a situation. The situation needs to be corrected, and not slowly.
Let's clarify again - you can hear words about friendship from a girl when time passes, and you don't have sex with her, don't take her. That is, your communication does not go into another, bodily channel. Moreover, the more dates you had without sex, the more chances each time that there will be no sex with this girl at all!
Those chances of getting nothing grow exponentially. In general, understand that if you don’t have sex with a girl after the third date, then you most likely lost, and even if you still have sex later, then it’s not you, but the girl will be the main one in the relationship, and this, to put it mildly, is bad.
The longer you've been friends, the less likely you are to drop out of friends. Men come to me for training, and some of them tell me - "You know, I've been friends with one girl for five years, how can I fuck her." Of course, I am shocked by such words. I've been friends with my friend Alexander for about five years, too, but I'm thinking how to fuck him!)))). But we will talk about how to get out of a protracted friendship in other articles, but now ...
Let's fix the situation. The most important and difficult thing for you will be that you will have to take yourself by the balls and stepping over her words like - "" start touching her after all! But without asking permission, but simply silently, without further ado. Read about this in the article, how to quickly excite a girl.
Believe me, she will resist very strongly and try to put you in your place. Yes, there is a certain risk here - Either she will become your girlfriend, or you will lose her completely. But understand that you have already lost her if the girl offered to be friends.
What you need to do is call her and insist on a meeting. And this is not a movie or bowling, not a walk in the park, but a cafe with sofas so that you can sit next to it (this is extremely necessary). This cafe should be intimate, not loud music, subdued lights…
And there you begin to tell her that you really like her as a woman and that you are not going to be friends with her. But at the same time, your words should not be just empty, they should be supported by actions.
You just take her, turn her towards you and kiss her on the lips. Once again I tell you - there is nothing to lose! It breaks off - then you forget about it and that's it. And friendship is nonsense, you will dream about her, and she will meet with another, and you will see it. Is it better?
On my YouTube channel and here in the "Video" section, you can find videos on how to touch a girl on a date.
And no matter how your hands shake from excitement and fear of losing her, you still start to touch her. Grab yourself by the balls, you're the man!
Most The best decision- If a girl offered friendship and said let's remain friends, then my personal opinion is that the situation is generally lost. Try it, of course, but I don't want to give you too much hope. Most likely, seventy percent that you have already lost this match, perhaps even eighty, so you need to think about how to forget her.
But, there perfect solution How do you make sure no girl ever says that to you again? Never. These are trainings on seduction and effective communication with women from the VSE YOUR project. This is not an advertisement, you can go to one of my colleagues, that's not the point.
The bottom line is that you have a real chance to change your life for the better. Once and for all, fill it with the most beautiful and classy women and, in the end, find your soulmate who will love you.
At the training we will pump you, remove all your fears and prejudices. It consists of eighty percent practice, that is, we will not just tell you what to do, you will do, and not just listen.
Because communication with women can only be learned through practice. You have probably already seen my videos with live dating with girls, so here you can do the same! So don’t delay, life goes by very quickly…..
In this article, you learned what to do if a girl said let's be friends. It's up to you, man, to draw your own conclusions.
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What to do if a girl says: - Let's stay friends?
This phrase, probably, everyone has ever heard and knows firsthand how painfully it hits self-esteem. What to do in such a situation? How to change the course of events in the right direction?
So. Let's go back a little.
You met the girl you like. Made an appointment. We started dating. Go to cafes, cinemas, go to clubs and concerts. Naturally, all this is at your expense. This goes on for some time. Platonic companionship will slowly bore you and you want more.
But at the very first attempts to translate relations into a horizontal plane, the girl, modestly lowering her eyes, says: - Let's remain friends?
It seems that the earth is floating away from under your feet and life has been lived in vain. But do not despair. All this is not so scary if you know what to do in such cases.
So what should be done? How to behave?
The main thing, of course, is not to do anything stupid and, stepping on the throat of your hormones and offended pride, soberly assessing the situation, make the most important choice - continue to beat your forehead against the wall or spend time with much greater benefit, because there are so many pretty girls around.
To spit, grind and forget in such a situation would be the most correct. But it happens that the girl really likes and does not want to leave. Or you just want to get satisfaction for wasted nerves, time and money.
Then the good news for you is that there is a solution in such a seemingly difficult situation.
The action plan in this case should be like this. We disappear from her field of vision for a certain time, for 2-3 weeks. This will help to recover a little and start the relationship as if from scratch. If during this time, of course, you don’t want to continue the relationship with her. No SMS, calls, random meetings. Sustaining a pause, we must try to actively communicate with the female gender as much as possible. An experienced male is always more attractive in the eyes of women, and it doesn’t hurt to raise self-esteem yourself.
And now, time passes, and you again appear in front of her. But not in the role of a suitor, ingratiatingly looking into his eyes, in the role of a kind of macho who knows how to seduce anyone, who knows his own worth and which she simply cannot get. It should look exactly like this.
You can go somewhere else again, but try not to pay for it again. You are friends. She herself suggested: - Let's stay friends! At the same time, friends are not forbidden to visit each other. So try to visit her. Let her feed you something she cooked herself there.
Share secrets with her in a friendly way - tell her about your adventures, about how and with whom it was in bed. Invite her to support you on your next date. Ask her about other girls. Try to visit with her more often where you can meet her friends, go together in company, to parties. Flirt with all her friends. The natural female sense of ownership will not allow her to scatter such cool guys and soon she will drag you into bed herself.
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How to get your girlfriend back after the phrase "Let's be friends"?
The phrase of the girlfriend becomes quite unpleasant: "Let's remain friends." This can happen both after a long relationship with her, and even before their onset. At any moment, a girl can decide to leave, which will be a bolt from the blue for a guy. How to get back your girlfriend who no longer wants to be with you?
This question remains relevant, because in our time, parting is common. You meet a girl, you love her, you cherish her, and she suddenly says that she wants to remain friends. It happens that a girl takes courtship for a long time, even lets her in, and then says that she is breaking up.
Looking back at past relationships, it's hard to find reasons why a girl says, "Let's be friends." It is stupid for a girl to say such a phrase to a guy who is clearly not in the mood for friendly relations with her. It’s even more stupid for the guy himself to immediately succumb to emotions and pretend that he can easily live without a girl.
If there is a desire to return the girl, despite the offensive words, then consider this topic more details on the site masculino.ru.
What should not be done if a girl says: "Let's be friends"?
After the relationship broke up and the girl says: “Let's remain friends,” internal anger and indignation arise. How can you remain friends after what happened between you? If you have not cooled down with feelings just like your ex-lover, then you are probably worried about the question of what needs to be done to get her back. Now we will discuss the topic of what not to do when a girl left you. After all, the most important mistake can be made not by returning, but by responding to parting.
The most common guy behaviors are:
- Complete ignore. The guy pretends that he is also satisfied with the breakup.
- Running after a girl, gifts and compliments. If a girl pushes a guy away, then the behavior of the guy when he intensively courts her will be too much.
These are two extremes that will not lead to good. Let us consider in more detail all the mistakes that should be avoided after breaking up with a girl:
- Give gifts, compliments, apologize. This is called humiliation when a guy's girlfriend sends him off, and he continues to look after her like a faithful dog. The girl will be annoyed by the behavior of a guy who does not respect himself and is ready to crawl in front of her on his knees, if only she would come back to him.
- Constantly call and text her. Exes can't be in constant contact if they don't have an ongoing relationship. The girl left you, left. It's time to stop calling her, writing messages, especially of a love nature. This is another way of humiliation that will only alienate the girl from you.
- Cry in front of her. This can happen both literally and indirectly. If a guy shows himself as unhappy and needy, it only infuriates. Even more annoying is the situation when the guy begins to threaten: “If you don’t come back to me, then I will kill myself.” A girl can either laugh in her face, or feel sorry for the guy and return to him, but not for long and not seriously. In any case, the relationship will fall apart even faster, and the girl will finally be impossible to return after this.
- Declaration of love. The girl who left the guy does not need his declarations of love in any form. This will annoy her even more and move her away from the guy. She can maintain contacts, but not succumb to love words.
Considering the mistakes of guys, one can note another most common one, which modern young ladies in their right mind and mind will not fall for. Let's talk about it further.
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How to get your girlfriend back: do not say that everything will change
Psychologists say that you need to reconsider your behavior if you want to return your beloved girl who left the guy. However, it would be a mistake to behave when a guy, having only heard about his bad behavior, without thinking, starts throwing promises: “I'm sorry. It won't happen again. I promise you". Don't say everything will change. Why?
If you promise on emotions, without serious intentions to change something in the relationship, then you will briefly get along with your beloved, but she will quickly leave you as soon as she notes for herself that you have deceived her. If you promised, you must definitely change it! If you don't change anything, then the girl will leave you and next time she won't listen at all.
You can promise again that you will do everything to change your bad behavior. But now the girl will not believe your words, and will do the right thing: you promise without having conscious and serious intentions and desires to do so. Your goal is to get the girl back, win, not really improve your relationship.
No matter how much you promise, the girl won't believe you, because there is already real experience word incontinence. It's the same as if a girl promised you to lose weight if you married her. What is the connection between marriage and weight loss is illogical and incomprehensible. Just as you would not believe that the girl will really lose weight after the wedding, so she will not believe you that your relationship will improve if she returns to you.
Young people, more mature men and women also keep up with them, known for their transience of love. Today they love, and tomorrow they no longer feel this feeling. But it happens that the partners met for a long time, and then broke up for some reason. After that, one of them decides to return the former lover or sweetheart, but does not know how to do it.
How to get your love back? First, you should understand that if you were previously loved, but then stopped loving, it means that some circumstances contributed to this. There is love in your partner, but it constantly goes out for some reason. So, you just need to make sure that love for you flares up again.
Secondly, you should understand the reasons that extinguish the love of your partner. These reasons served as your parting. For what reasons did you break up? What made your partner leave you? Identify and start eliminating them.
Don't make one of the mistakes people make when trying to get back in a relationship: they run after their loved ones but don't work on what caused their breakup. But former partners are watching to see if people change. And if they don't change, then they don't see the point in rekindling the relationship.
Your task is not just to return your loved one, but also to show him that you have become different: what used to be a problem is no longer there, you have changed. You need to work out all those problem areas, because of which you constantly quarreled with your beloved, and change them. Your former partner needs to see that by resuming a relationship with you, she will not face again what previously annoyed you or led to conflicts. Therefore, change yourself and, as if by chance, show your new qualities to your former partner. You should not talk about them, but demonstrate them in appropriate situations. And when the ex sees your changes, she herself will want to return to you.
Renew feelings in your loved ones by eliminating your mistakes and the causes of your quarrels. Make it so that former lovers themselves want to return to you, and not because you were persistent. In the first case, they will stay with you for a long time, because they themselves have expressed a desire to be around. And in the second case, happiness will not last long - until your first quarrel.
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You should consider tips on how to get your girlfriend back in order to be able to renew a relationship with her:
- Accept her offer. She says, "Let's be friends." And you agree! This will be a shock to her, when she expected you to disagree and start running after her. In such a situation, when you break up, she will be interested in what you are doing, who is next to you now, what distracts you from thinking that she broke up with you.
- Don't call her first, wait for her to call you herself. And in most cases, the girl who left the guy herself soon dials him on the phone to find out about his affairs. Here you can already control the situation. For example, you can say "I'm busy, let's call later." No need to talk about past relationships or feelings. Communicate on neutral topics, such as: how are you, what are you doing, what's new, etc.
Try not to tell her everything, it's better not to finish. Let her understand that she does not receive answers to her questions. At the same time, do not communicate with her for a very long time. As soon as there are pauses in the conversation, you should end the conversation. It is better to do it on your own initiative.
- Start dating another beauty. She must be really beautiful or at least interesting to you. It's even better if your ex finds out that you're in a new relationship. Not only did she herself initiate the break in relations, because of which she lost a smart and interesting guy, he still doesn’t cry for her, but is passionate about something and even found himself another girl.
Often girls break up to be chased. Calm your ardor former theme that you will give her what she herself tried to achieve - loneliness away from you.
- Get to a party where she and your mutual friends will be. Well, if the girl will be forced to see you in practice. It’s good if you change yourself by this time in the sense where she was dissatisfied with you. At the same time, do not try to run up to her and immediately tell her that you have changed. She herself must see that you have become different - the way she wanted to see you.
Chat with everyone at the party. Pay as much attention to your ex-girlfriend as you do to your other friends. Chat with her girlfriends, and with your friends, and with her. At the same time, behave like an acquaintance who does not think about her at all and does not miss her.
You can add “pepper” in order to bring your new passion to the party. Look after her and be a gentleman enough to ex girlfriend just stunned and jealous. She needs to see what she has lost, especially when "all the good" goes to some other girl.
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Girls are emotional beings. Today they want to stay friends with the guys, and tomorrow they already regret their decision. This effect is achieved when the guys do not run after those who dumped them, and also continue to live, meet new girls and even become better. The result of all events is jealousy and a desire to return the old relationship to the one that destroyed them herself.
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And also these “don’t touch me” is an attempt not to seem like an accessible woman and relieve yourself of responsibility. It is very important for a girl not to seem easily accessible, it is important for her that she does not give (it does not matter sex or), but that they take from her.
Let's be friends, what should we do? Above, we figured out why this happens, and now let's talk about what can be done. Ras you are in such a situation. The situation needs to be corrected, and not slowly.
Let's clarify again - you can hear words about friendship from a girl when time passes, and you don't have sex with her, don't take her. That is, your communication does not go into another, bodily channel. Moreover, the more dates you had without sex, the more chances each time that there will be no sex with this girl at all!
Those chances of getting nothing grow exponentially. In general, understand that if you don’t have sex with a girl after the third date, then you most likely lost, and even if you still have sex later, then it’s not you, but the girl will be the main one in the relationship, and this, to put it mildly, is bad.
The longer you've been friends, the less likely you are to drop out of friends. Men come to me for training, and some of them tell me - "You know, I've been friends with one girl for five years, how can I fuck her." Of course, I am shocked by such words. I've been friends with my friend Alexander for about five years, too, but I'm thinking how to fuck him!)))). But we will talk about how to get out of a protracted friendship in other articles, but now ...
Believe me, she will resist very strongly and try to put you in your place. Yes, there is a certain risk here - Either she will become your girlfriend, or you will lose her completely. But understand that you have already lost her if the girl offered to be friends.
What you need to do is call her and insist on a meeting. And this is not a movie or bowling, not a walk in the park, but a cafe with sofas so that you can sit next to it (this is extremely necessary). This cafe should be intimate, not loud music, subdued lights…
And there you begin to tell her that you really like her as a woman and that you are not going to be friends with her. But at the same time, your words should not be just empty, they should be supported by actions.
You just take her, turn her towards you and kiss her on the lips. Once again I tell you - there is nothing to lose! It breaks off - then you forget about it and that's it. And friendship is nonsense, you will dream about her, and she will meet with another, and you will see it. Is it better?
On my YouTube channel and here in the "Video" section, you can find videos on how to touch a girl on a date.
And no matter how your hands shake from excitement and fear of losing her, you still start to touch her. Grab yourself by the balls, you're the man!
The best solution - If the girl offered friendship and said let's be friends, then my personal opinion is that the situation is generally lost. Try it, of course, but I don't want to give you too much hope. Most likely, seventy percent that you have already lost this match, perhaps even eighty, so you need to think, .
But, there is a great solution for how to make sure that no girl will tell you this again. Never. This and effective communication with women from the project ALL YOURS. This is not an advertisement, you can go to one of my colleagues, that's not the point.
The bottom line is that you have a real chance to change your life for the better. Once and for all, fill it with the most beautiful and classy women and, in the end, find your soulmate who will love you.
At the training we will pump you, remove all your fears and prejudices. It consists of eighty percent practice, that is, we will not just tell you what to do, you will do, and not just listen.
Because communication with women can only be learned through practice. You have probably already seen my videos with live dating with girls, so here you can do the same! So don’t delay, life goes by very quickly…..
In this article, you learned what to do if a girl said let's be friends. It's up to you, man, to draw your own conclusions.
