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Scenario wedding anniversary - 50 years
Golden wedding script
Wedding Anniversary - 50 years (Golden Wedding)

"Golden Wedding" - 50 years of marriage. A golden wedding is a significant date, like gold, which is considered one of the expensive materials. After all, not without reason Olympic champions it is gold that is awarded to emphasize the significance of the victory achieved by hard work. The golden wedding is the day when the spouses are congratulated and rejoice for their strong union. For the 50th anniversary of the wedding, the spouses give each other gold jewelry as a sign of devotion and love, because the anniversary of the golden wedding speaks of mutual great love. For 50 years of weddings, relatives, friends and witnesses are usually invited, who 50 years ago witnessed the conclusion of such a long marriage. As a gift for a golden wedding, guests present: gilded things-frames, jewelry, watches, etc. Golden wedding is a day that can be celebrated different ways: either resort to companies that will offer you a scenario for a golden wedding, or celebrate a golden wedding at home, with a rich table, at which loved ones and children bring their congratulations to the spouses, and they, in turn, will remember the years they have lived together. You can also look at happy couples by typing on the Internet: download the golden wedding, and be happy for yourself and the people who have been able to keep love and fidelity for so many years.

Congratulations:
I wish you a good journey
Walk this path with friends
Health so as not to take
And never be discouraged.
Smiles, joy, good luck,
Live to a hundred! And not otherwise

Decor.
Setting up a meeting room is easy. A poster hangs on the back wall, the number “50” is written in some “golden” paint, bordered by laurel wreaths of the corresponding color.
In the middle of the room are placed two chairs for the "golden" anniversaries. A table is placed in the foreground, behind which is the leader - the performer of the ceremony. Relatives and participants of the meeting are located a little further.

The scenario of the celebration should be drawn up taking into account the specific situation, the nature of the people to whom the celebration is dedicated, their desires and features copyright-by-holiday family relations. "Golden" anniversaries send invitations to their loved ones and relatives in advance.
On the appointed day, 10-15 minutes before the start of the celebration, when the meeting participants, relatives and invitees take their places, the heroes of the day are located in another room.

When the music starts, the jubilees enter accompanied by the children. The song falls silent, against the background of the melody in the recording, verses sound:
soldered by earthly love,
United for years
Generations meet here:
An alloy of wisdom and gold.

The leader of the meeting addresses the attendee.

Leading.
Welcome dear guests! Today we congratulate the "golden" anniversaries. Let today be for each of us one of the most important days and joyful events. Dear guests! At this hour, we greet the "golden" anniversaries-spouses _____________________________ (last name, first name, patronymic of the spouses).
Fanfares are heard, then music is softly played. Accompanied by two girls with a basket of flowers in their hands, the "golden" anniversaries go to their places. During their procession, the leader briefly talks about them: when and where their marriage is registered, what are their main labor merits, how many children they raised, etc. The participants of the meeting took their places, the music stops. The performer of the ceremony addresses those present.
Leading.
On behalf of your family and friends, I want to present you with a symbolic marriage certificate. Your strong family is not only your joy, the joy of your children and relatives. This is the joy of all your friends. Happy holiday, our beloved ones.

The honoring of the "golden" anniversaries should be most solemn, sincere and touching. Before the address of the host to the "golden" anniversaries, the following words are heard in the tape recording to the music:
All golden weddings, there are no simple ones,
When love, how the heart beats in them.
This couple has silver in their curls,
It's like a crane feather
Their union is high and poetic,
And the burden of years of such love is not a burden,
Blessed is the life that is so bright.
You can’t say about her, they say, she was,
She's there forever, forever!

Host (referring to the "golden" anniversaries).
Dear _____________________________________________ (names, patronymics of the anniversaries)! Today marks the 50th anniversary of your married life. Half a century ago, young, happy, you entered into family life. No wonder the years have flown by. Behind many bright, memorable days. Your life experience has ripened into golden wisdom.

The facilitator briefly talks about life path anniversaries.

Leading.
There have been trials and tribulations in your life. But you were always together, grief and copyright-by-holiday shared joy in half. You managed to keep a strong and friendly family. Through a lifetime
carried loyalty to each other, loyalty to their cause. Dear anniversaries! Let the baton of your wonderful family life and love is passed on from generation to generation.

Music sounds.

Leading.
We ask relatives, friends and workmates to congratulate our meeting participants.

The participants of the meeting are congratulated in turn by relatives, comrades at work and friends. Music sounds.

Leading.
Allow me to once again congratulate our dear anniversaries on a significant event in their lives, wish them the very best, the brightest. May the baton of your wonderful life and love be passed on from generation to generation. Good luck!

Sounds "Zazdravnaya" I. Dunayevsky. And the feasting begins.
Presenter:
Today joy and fun
Both relatives and friends,
Came to celebrate with the mood
Your twenty-fifth anniversary!
Did you know love and tenderness,
Hand in hand walked through life,
Warmth of feelings, warmth and fidelity
You have saved for ages!
So let the time of happiness last
For many long, long years;
Pass on to your children and grandchildren
Life's trade secret!

Presenter:
25 is not that much
It's only halfway.
A long life ahead
You still have to go through together.
Everything happens in life
Fate is patient with you:
Made friends, got married
Made it to silver.
Silver wedding for you
Knocked on the threshold.
This day is so happy
He helped us all get together.
We wish our couple
Have fun, don't get sick
With a mutual spirit
To your happiness to see!
Let's drink to the anniversaries!

For men:
O The decision to marry was your last independent decision.
O Carry your wife in your arms, and she will sit on your neck herself.
O You should help your wife on March 8, but on the rest of the days, do everything yourself.
O When walking with your wife, do not look to the left, as you may not notice that she is looking to the right.
O Getting up in the morning, kiss your wife, maybe you will be the first.
O Love and respect your wife, but do not allow her to be the mistress of the house, be the master yourself, so that, escaping from the wrath of your wife, sitting under the table, you can say to everyone: “I am the master of the house! Wherever I want, I sit there!

Women:
O If the husband came home late, give him the opportunity to tell what you have known for a long time.
O In money matters observe a strict division of labor. Leave the important and honorable right to earn money to your husband. And take on the difficult, difficult task of spending them. You have to give in at least something.
O It is strictly forbidden to tease and call your husband the names of the inhabitants of the zoo!
O Never argue with your husband, but start crying right away.
O If the husband starts to work late, change the husband's profession.
O Love and take care of your husband and his nervous system, never tell him the true value of the purchases.
Maybe we got it mixed up when we poured invaluable experience into verbal form ... But even if so, do not be angry with us, because our intentions were the same - to amuse all our honest company!

Presenter:

"Body parts":
For her, you need to prepare in advance two identical sets of pieces of paper on which parts of the body are written: head, back, arm, chest, buttocks, leg, etc., to the best of your imagination and the degree of looseness of the company. Then each set is placed in a separate box (hat). It is desirable that the boxes are somehow different. This is necessary so that in the future the sets of pieces of paper do not mix. Then all those present are divided into boy-girl pairs. Then a pair is chosen to start the game. Each is given a personal set of papers. To begin with, everyone randomly pulls out one piece of paper from their set. For example, a man pulls out a piece of paper “hand”, and a lady gets “back”. With these parts of the body, they must touch. Next, the participants pull out one more piece of paper. Now they must, while maintaining their previous contacts, come into contact with new parts of the body. And so on. During the game, the posture can and should be constantly changed. After the couple pulls out the third or fourth piece of paper, it is usually impossible to stand on your feet. This is where auxiliary tools come into play - chairs, a sofa, a floor. Any furniture is allowed. The game continues until the couple can no longer keep in contact at the same time all those parts of the body, the indications for which they pulled out. Then the next pair is called, the papers are placed in boxes, and everything starts anew. Spectators have every right to advise the players, offering their own options for various positions. The winner is the pair that managed to simultaneously hold largest number contacts.
Presenter: (to the couple who turned out to be the winner): Congratulations on your ability to hold on tightly to each other in any position. I think that __________ and __________ (names of anniversaries) will take an example from you in this. Perhaps you will need this prize... (He rewards the couple with a bottle of stationery glue).

Presenter:
So empty bottles appeared on our table. Now we can finally announce Spin the Bottle! Whom the bottle points to, he takes a card with a word, and we will explain the meaning of this word in our kissing game.

"Bottle":
The bottle is spun on a tray of cards; during the game, the cards are sorted out in turn by those whom the bottle points to. Here are the words and their meanings:
Fur - kiss the neighbors of all.
Pipes - kiss a neighbor on the lips.
Point - whoever you want, kiss on the cheek.
Arrow - let the girls kiss you.
Fingers - let the boys kiss you.
The host can put the cards back until all the guests kiss each other.

Presenter:
But we have a couple more wishes, but not simple ones, but personal ones! This is for you, __________ (husband's name):
25 years you have already lived
With dear wife,
Does the saddle press hard on you?
Is the girth tight?
You've already begun to understand
How is marriage.
Who rules over you
At the table and in a fight?
Or do you not hit her?
Dove more and more
Gently press to your heart
Will you buy a ring?
Well done, you found out
How to achieve everything.
Fly away from accusations
From the nest of a titmouse.

And this is for you, __________ (wife's name):
25 years you lived
With my beloved hubby
She gave birth to two sons
For him, loved ones.
Father-in-law dreams of fishing -
"Break out of the house,
Yes, take it with you
Dear husband."
Well, don't be a simpleton;
A friend called
Stay and sleep
Sleep without a spouse.
Let him snore alone in bed
Breakfast will be prepared
And by the end of such a week
He will howl with anguish.
Then ask him
Fur coat or sheepskin coat,
Explain what is warm in it
Let him spare no money.

Presenter:
And now I invite everyone to take part in one unusual relay race. The most important thing here is not to pay attention to anyone, to be guided only by your own imagination and ingenuity. The main thing is to run from one chair to another, and make it the most interesting. So let's get ready to start...
Run in a triangle! No, not three people and not a triangle, but a triangle. How do triangles run?
Now, in the other direction, run in a dotted line! They ran in squares, in an oblique line, in a column, soft-boiled ...
In this competition, everything is decided by the host's imagination and the ingenuity of the players. The winner, who is chosen by the hosts of the holiday, gets the right to say a toast.

Presenter:
Respectable people gathered at the table. And the question arose among women: “What is love?”
One woman says: "Love is probably a disease."
The doctor gets up: “No, this is not a disease. Most likely, this is work, because a very large amount of energy is released.
The architect stands up: “Well, what kind of work is this? Because everything is so perfect. Rather, it is art."
An art critic stands up: “No, no. Art needs an audience. And it happens one on one. Rather, it is a process."
A lawyer stands up: “What kind of process is it when two parties are satisfied. Rather, it is science."
An old professor gets up: “What kind of science is this when every young student can, but I, an old professor, cannot!”
So let's drink to the eternal students! In love!

"Congratulations from the circus":
Under the musical intro to the program “In the World of Animals”, two guests appear in the hall, one in the form of a trainer, the other a monkey, which can be dressed in black or brown tights. The face is under the mask.
Animal trainer: Mickey, say hello to the guests!
(The monkey bows picturesquely, almost thrusting his head between his legs and moving his hands back)
Trainer: Mickey, now welcome the guests!
(Monkey claps his hands)
Trainer: Mickey, did you want to say something to the anniversaries?
(The monkey actively nods its head and hums)
Trainer: Well, say so, and I will translate your speech.
(The monkey, screaming, beats his chest with his fists and utters the cry of Tarzan)
Trainer: A faction of chimpanzees and gorillas in our zoo...
(The monkey jumps in place, screaming, turning around itself)
Trainer: ...with great joy and enthusiasm...
(The monkey approaches the trainer, hugs him and kisses him three times)
Trainer:... met the news...
(The monkey clicks on its neck - makes a gesture that means "drink")
Animal Trainer: ...about your upcoming anniversary.
(Monkey lets out Tarzan's cry again)
Trainer: A faction of chimpanzees and gorillas in our zoo...
(The monkey "tearing a vest on his chest")
Trainer:...wishing you with all my heart...
(The monkey hugs and kisses the anniversaries and guests)
Trainer:...happiness in your personal life...
(The monkey takes out a purse from the trainer's pocket, puts a leaf of greenery or a paper napkin into it)
Animal trainer: ... a lot, a lot of money ...
(The monkey pulls out a pack of cigarettes from another pocket of the trainer, tears it up, throws it on the floor and tramples)
Trainer: ...and good health and moderation in everything!
(The monkey enthusiastically begins to look in the head for an insect trainer)
Trainer: And also a complete immersion in nirvana.
(The monkey jumps into the hands of the trainer)
Trainer: Let the children give you many grandchildren...
(The monkey jumps on the trainer's back)
Trainer: ... and grandchildren - great-grandchildren.
(The monkey jumps in place, turning around itself)
Trainer: And of course, it's fun to celebrate the anniversary day...
(The monkey takes out a bundle of bananas stored in advance nearby and carries it to the hero of the day)
Trainer:...why the monkeys of our zoo give you the most valuable thing they have...
(The monkey hugs and kisses the hero of the day)
Animal trainer: ...and invited to spend the holidays in their company.
(The monkey returns to the trainer, clapping his hands)
Trainer: Once again, congratulations on the anniversary and join all the congratulations.
(Monkey bows)
Trainer: Goodbye!
(The monkey, with a frightened look, points his finger at the window to the trainer and, while he listens and tries to understand what is happening there, pulls the bottle off the table and runs away with a cheerful cry.)

Presenter:

"The investigation is led by a musician":
The facilitator encourages the participants to restore the lyrics of the song. For example, the last words of each of the four lines are given: birth, give, spring, speak. Therefore, we can understand that the next song is encrypted. I can’t give you a birthday
Giving expensive gifts
But on these spring nights,
I can talk about love.

Blanks:

1. A dolphin fell in love with a mermaid with a deep, reverent love.
He kept her light sleep, carried pearls to her head.
He forgot that he was a dolphin, he forgot his own family,
He flew from the depths of the sea in the hope of a timid kiss.

2. Old maple, old maple,
Old maple knocks on glass
Inviting us with friends for a walk,
Why, why
Why is it so bright for me?
Because you're walking down the alley!

3. Yellow guitar bend
You hug softly
Echo Shard String
Pierces the tight height...

4. The train will go to Tikhoretskaya.
The trailer will move, the platform will remain.
Brick wall, station clock,
white handkerchiefs white handkerchiefs
Handkerchiefs are white, eyes are sad.

5. In autumn on a rainy gray day
A deer ran through the city
He ran along the echoing pavement
A red forest shot by an arrow.

6. Don't overthink seconds.
When the time comes, you will understand.
They whistle like bullets at the temple
Moments, moments, moments.

Presenter:
"Understand me!":
In this game, there are two competitors who want to show off the level of their mutual understanding. Anniversaries themselves can take part in it, if they wish. What you need to play:
O Large print text
The first participant, looking at the text that the leader holds in front of him, must convey its content to the second participant with facial expressions and gestures, who, trying to understand the message, explains it.

Examples of texts for "transmission":

1. Once upon a time there was an eared Elephant in hot Africa. And although the Baby Elephant was very small, he was already friends with the huge Rhinoceros and the hairy Gorilla. All three of them splashed in muddy puddles, ate juicy bananas and basked in the African sun. Once, when a baby elephant was drinking water from a river, a toothy crocodile grabbed him by the trunk. But a huge Rhinoceros and a hairy Gorilla rushed to the aid of the eared Elephant. The rhinoceros stepped on the crocodile's paw, and the gorilla bit him on the tail. The crocodile howled in pain and released the Baby Elephant. So friendship conquered evil and deceit.

2. Once I turned on the TV and started watching my favorite program “Good night, kids!”. Only Khryusha and Stepashka greeted me, when suddenly they started to fight! I climbed into the TV to separate them. Khryusha gave me a hoof in the eye, and Stepashka bit me on the ear, but I said: “Sailors don’t give up!” and grabbed Piggy by the tail, and Stepashka by the ears. Khryusha and Stepashka immediately drooped and asked me for forgiveness, I let them go, got out of the TV and did not watch “Good night, kids!” anymore, but began to watch an erotic film.

Presenter:

"Road of Happiness":
Two teams compete: who has the longest road of happiness. You need to take off your things (even down to your underpants) and lay them out in one length, whoever got the longer road won.

Presenter:

"Musical competition":
We propose to hold musical competition. We will compete in the knowledge of love songs. Let's try to remember as many love songs as possible and recite or sing a few lines from them. The last one wins. (The song named last is sung in its entirety. The winner gets a prize - a raw egg for healing the vocal cords.)

Presenter:
"Scarecrow":
Two teams of 3 people each (1 girl and 2 guys, it's more fun). The girl gets between the guys, and they have to dress the girl in a minute, but only with the clothes that they themselves have on (watches and rings are also considered). Accordingly, the team with the most clothes on the girl wins.

Presenter:
"Masquerade":
"WEDDING" penetrated the well-known phrases. She swallowed various words. It is required to remove the alien and restore justice. For example: "Weddings are counted in the fall" - "Chickens are counted in the fall." If everything is clear to everyone, then you can start. If not, then we'll start anyway.
-There will be a wedding on our street.
- Dashing wedding beginning.
-Wedding is worse than bondage.
-Before the wedding, do not inhale.
-Wash your hands before the wedding.
-Weddings! Let's live in peace!
- Nu, wedding, wait a minute!

Answers:
-Every dog ​​has his day.
-Down and Out trouble started.
-Hunting is worse than bondage.
-While there is life there is hope.
-Wash your hands before eating.
-Guys! Let's live in peace!
- Well, hare, wait!

Presenter:

"Princess on the Pea":
Only women participate in the game. It is necessary to put stools (or chairs without upholstery) in a row according to the number of expected participants (3-4 is best). A certain number of round caramels are placed on each stool (there are such sweets, they are small koloboks in shape), you can use buttons on the leg (preferably larger). For example, on the first stool - 3 sweets, on the second - 2, on the third - 4. From above, the stools are covered with opaque plastic bags. The preparations are finished. Those who wish are called. They are seated on stools. The music turns on. We usually include the song "Move your booty" for this contest. And so, dancing, sitting on a stool, the participants must determine how many sweets are under them. The one who does it faster and more correctly will win.
50 years is a round date. How can this anniversary be celebrated?
Behind half a century of living together. Is it a lot or a little? Not one pound of salt has been eaten, children, grandchildren, great-grandchildren, friends are sitting nearby. Why was such a beautiful name “golden” chosen for the name of the fiftieth anniversary?
Gold is a noble metal yellow color, malleable, chemically very inert, does not change in air even when heated. Isn't the name of the anniversary fair? After all, in order to live together for half a century, you need a special "flexibility", gentleness of character, the invariability of feelings even "when heated from the outside", while inertia symbolizes the constancy of direction in moving towards the goal. So in marriage, we all our lives move towards a common goal together, confident in the reliability and support of a partner.
A golden wedding is rarely celebrated, but if it is celebrated, then it becomes a really big and joyful event for the whole family of anniversaries. The Golden Wedding is a celebration that gathers the whole family around the founding parents. This is a holiday that allows you to feel the cohesion and unity of the family, the traditions that have developed in it. It is the golden wedding that in many ways says that in this family love and happiness are inherited, they are a sign of this family. Next to the anniversaries is the fruit of their long life together: beloved and loving children, grandchildren, great-grandchildren ...
The golden wedding is celebrated almost as magnificently as the very first. It is important to prepare well, the surprise will be pleasant not only for the anniversaries themselves, but for the whole family. The golden wedding of parents is a really big holiday! A number of beautiful traditions and rituals are associated with the golden wedding.
The golden wedding celebrates the fiftieth anniversary of married life. In general, the anniversary of the golden wedding is a family holiday, uniting all household members, gathering all family members around the founders, a holiday that allows you to feel the unity of relatives and friends. After all, nothing is so important for a person as a feeling of family support, a sense of belonging to something big that can protect, shelter.
The ceremony of shedding gold. At the golden wedding, the spouses are showered with gold coins, golden sparkles or confetti.
They also shower with grain and rice, wishing prosperity, happiness, prosperity, love and mutual understanding.
All guests and relatives shower the anniversaries. “As the golden rain of well-being, love, mutual understanding fell on you fifty years ago, so let it rain for another half a century!” You can shower spouses sitting at the table or entering the hall where the celebration will take place.
There is also a custom of giving a golden handkerchief to the mother. The headscarf was usually embroidered with gold threads and covered the head and shoulders of the mother by the eldest son or daughter. Today, a scarf embroidered with gold can be completely replaced with a lurex shawl.
The ceremony of tea drinking. After the holiday, the spouses sit down at an uncleaned empty table and drink a cup of tea together. And only then can the children help clear the table. This rite symbolizes the unity of the spouses in own house: despite the holidays, despite the guests who usually come and go, their house is firmly supported by the two of them.

The rite of exchange of new rings.
In some regions of Russia, on the twenty-fifth wedding anniversary, spouses replace gold rings with silver ones and wear them until the golden wedding, when new gold ones are put on. Sometimes, after the twenty-fifth wedding anniversary, a silver one is put on the finger next to the gold wedding ring, and on the fiftieth wedding anniversary, both are replaced with new gold ones.
Former rings are passed on to children or grandchildren "for family happiness." This ceremony is also very symbolic, especially if a new marriage is expected in the family or it has recently taken place. It is believed that in this way, together with the rings, the wisdom is transmitted to the young, on which the marriage of grandfather and grandmother has been based for all these long years.
Sometimes the symbolic rite of transmission of conjugal wisdom was performed with the help of lit candles. They, like rings, were passed on to the young. At the same time, the spouses-anniversaries delivered a parting speech to the young for a long friendly married life.
The ceremony of lighting candles symbolizes the beginning of a new fiftieth anniversary of the married life of the spouses. To do this, two candles painted with bronze paint (under gold) are placed on the table of the “golden newlyweds”.
The host says: “These two candles are a symbol of your love, which has been shining on you all these years, helping to overcome all difficulties and hardships, to support each other. Let's light them up again so that they new force blazed for another half century!”
To make the exchange of new rings symbolic and memorable, it can be done in a church. Some couples who have not performed a wedding ceremony before do it on such a big date, because their feelings no longer need to be checked and before God they are forever husband and wife.
A circle or a ring is a symbol of completeness, completeness, the cyclical nature of human life, which is probably why it became a sign of marriage. Some authors, however, compared the engagement ring with a link in the chain of married life. No wonder they say: "Love is a ring, and the ring has neither beginning nor end."
Pass on wisdom to the rest of the guests happy life marriage can be done in a slightly different way. A large pie or kalach is baked, cut into pieces, and the heroes of the day pass them from their own hands to all those present who are married.
According to another custom, a solemn feast dedicated to the fiftieth anniversary of the wedding begins with kalach. But not a whole kalach is served, but half of it: as a sign that half of life has been lived. Anniversaries begin to break the kalach, then the guests eat a piece, washing down the bread with a sip of vodka. The whole kalach is necessarily eaten, the further joint life of the spouses and its duration will depend on this.
The evening can end with the throwing of the bride's bouquet. If a young woman catches him, then she will soon get married, and if she is married, she will live in marriage as long as the spouses of the anniversary.
We associate all holidays with joy, laughter, cheerful faces and, of course, with gifts. A gift can be made expensive or cheap, but if it is made with love and from the heart, it will certainly bring joy to the heroes of the occasion. After all, the most important thing in this case is attention.
Presentation of gifts can be arranged in the same way as at the very first wedding, accompanying gifts with poems, congratulations, and humorous parting words.
For a golden wedding, spouses are given gold jewelry, golden metal souvenirs, or any other gifts wrapped in beautiful golden gift paper.
What gift to choose? Best of all, of course, if it will have a symbolic load.
For example, a gilded candlestick for two candles can be presented with the words:
“As this candlestick holds two candles, so may your love keep you forever near and never stop.
And may joy and happiness burn in your souls like these two lights!”
Wall clock in a gilded frame. Accompanying words: “Here is a clock for you, measure time for the next fifty years!”
Large wedding photograph in a gilded frame. Accompanying speech: “And here is a wedding photo for you at the beginning of a new life! And the frame is gold, live on, live more, and we will wait for the next wedding photo in an emerald frame.
Pood weight (16kg), painted with golden paint. Accompanying words: “Here, the bride and groom, we give you a pood of gold. This is a monument to that pood of salt that you have eaten over the past half century! Keep it up! Let there be 2-3 more such monuments…”. Such a gift is good for spouses with a certain sense of humor.
Photo album. A beautiful anniversary album for the 50th wedding anniversary is prepared by the children in advance; for this, all the photographs are collected from year to year, if possible: “Mom and dad a year after the wedding”, “Mom and dad two years later”, “Helen was born”, “ Vasenka got married”, etc. The personalized album with gold embossing looks beautiful, for example: "Ivanov Andrey Petrovich and Valentina Ivanovna - 50 years of marriage."
If you want to present something truly original to the heroes of the occasion, then order the portrait of the spouses with the whole family to the artist.
To do this, it is not necessary to pose for several hours, it is enough just to provide a photograph of the family, the rest is the skill of the artist.
A gift associated with the symbolic number 50 is possible. For example, you can give 50 tea roses, 50 balloons, 50 large yellow apples or golden oranges.
You can also order a couple of anniversary medals with names and dates for such a big holiday. Or an engraved congratulation on a large gift platter. Give, in the end, a big cake with a congratulatory inscription!
You always want to celebrate such a big celebration cheerfully, so that it is remembered. It is best to invite a toastmaster or try to write the script yourself and try yourself as a host. You can hold contests and lotteries.
Toasts and congratulations can be as follows:
Dear (names of spouses-anniversaries)! What a joy that we are present today at this wonderful jubilee.
You are proof that a long happy marriage is possible. Live long and stay for us all a prime example the fact that everything in this life is surmountable, that with love everything is achievable and possible! And let them shout that there is no eternal love and happy marriages- an exception, we can always say: "It's not true, in our family there have always been, are and will be love and happiness, which are inherited!" We count on you! And now - "Bitter!"
Let's drink to our family's legacy. Not for rings, chains, earrings, but for our parents, our treasure, rich in golden hands, golden hearts, golden words! If we didn’t have all this wealth, we wouldn’t have such a large, close-knit family gathered today at this table. We drink to mother's golden hands, who nursed us all, to father's golden hands, who built this house, caressed all of us, to a pair of golden hearts that love us, to two golden souls, rooting for us, wherever we are, for golden wise words that help us live and not make mistakes. That's how much we have! No bank has so much wealth, no one is immune from ruin like we are.
Let's drink to the golden heritage of our family! For our parents!
Golden color - color autumn leaves, and autumn is the time to harvest the fruits of labor. Our parents worked hard, but the fruits are around the table: children from young to old, from schoolchildren to professors and bosses. Let's drink to the fact that each of those sitting at the table could in the future reach the joyful time of the autumn of married life, when it will be possible to count their "chickens"! For the golden time of married life!
To live to see a golden wedding, the wife must have a golden character, and the husband must have iron restraint! Let's drink to a wonderful alloy, to the flourishing of domestic metallurgy!
Gold and silver by themselves mean nothing. It is necessary that the master had golden hands. So let's drink to the golden hands of the owners of this house!
50 years is a round date. How can this anniversary be celebrated? Behind half a century of living together. Is it a lot or a little? Not one pound of salt has been eaten, children, grandchildren, great-grandchildren, friends are sitting nearby. Why was such a beautiful name "golden" chosen for the name of the fiftieth anniversary?
Gold is a noble yellow metal, malleable, chemically very inert, and does not change in air even when heated. Isn't it fair, because in order to live half a century together, you need a special "flexibility", gentleness of character, the invariance of feelings even "when heated from the outside", while inertia symbolizes the constancy of direction in moving towards the goal. So in marriage, we all our lives move towards a common goal together, confident in the reliability and support of a partner.
A golden wedding is rarely celebrated, but if it is celebrated, then it becomes a really big and joyful event for the whole family of anniversaries. The Golden Wedding is a celebration that brings the entire family together around the founding parents. This is a holiday that allows you to feel the cohesion and unity of the family, the traditions that have developed in it. It is the golden wedding that in many ways says that in this family love and happiness are inherited, they are a sign of this family. Next to the anniversaries is the fruit of their long life together: joyful children, grandchildren, great-grandchildren
The golden wedding is celebrated almost as magnificently as the very first. It is important to prepare well, the surprise will be pleasant not only for the anniversaries themselves, but for the whole family. The golden wedding of parents is a really big holiday!
A number of beautiful traditions and rituals are associated with the golden wedding.
The golden wedding celebrates the fiftieth anniversary of married life. Nowadays, few people live to such an age, so we can safely say that spouses who have crossed the line of fifty years of experience, after a golden wedding, begin, as it were, a new period of their life together - a new half century.
This beginning of family life anew, for the next fifty years, can be quite logically noted by all the rites of the very first wedding, of course, in a slightly modified form.
In general, the anniversary of the golden wedding is a family holiday, uniting all household members, gathering all family members around the founders, a holiday that allows you to feel the unity of relatives and friends. After all, nothing is so important for a person as a feeling of family support, a sense of belonging to something big that can protect, shelter.
Ritual of shedding gold. For a golden wedding, spouses are showered with gold coins, golden sparkles or confetti. They also shower with grain and rice, wishing prosperity, happiness, prosperity, love and mutual understanding. All guests and relatives shower the anniversaries. “As the golden rain of well-being, love, mutual understanding fell on you fifty years ago, so let it pour for another half a century!” You can shower spouses sitting at the table or entering the hall where the celebration will take place.
There is also a custom of giving a golden handkerchief to the mother. The scarf was usually embroidered with gold thread, and the eldest son or daughter covered the head and shoulders of the mother. Today, a scarf embroidered with gold can be completely replaced with a lurex shawl.
Rite of tea. After the holiday, the couple sit down at an uncleaned empty table and drink a cup of tea together. And only then can the children help clear the table. This ceremony symbolizes the unity of the spouses in their own home, despite the holidays, despite the guests who usually come and go, their house is firmly supported by the two of them.
They buy a new pair of rings for a golden wedding, because the hands of the spouses have changed over the years, and the gold has worn out during this time. Of course, it is better to buy rings for children or close relatives, because shopping is no longer possible for anniversaries.
The rite of exchange of new rings. In some regions of Russia, on the twenty-fifth wedding anniversary, spouses replace gold rings with silver ones and wear them until the golden wedding, when new gold ones are put on. Sometimes, after the twenty-fifth wedding anniversary, a silver one is put on the finger next to the gold wedding ring, and on the fiftieth wedding anniversary, both are replaced with new gold ones.
Former rings are passed on to children or grandchildren "for family happiness." This ceremony is also very symbolic, especially if a new marriage is expected in the family or it has recently taken place. It is believed that in this way, together with the rings, the wisdom is transmitted to the young, on which the marriage of grandfather and grandmother has been based for all these long years.
Sometimes the symbolic rite of transmission of conjugal wisdom was performed with the help of lit candles. They, like rings, were passed on to the young. At the same time, the spouses-anniversaries delivered a parting speech to the young for a long friendly married life.
The ceremony of lighting candles symbolizes the beginning of a new fiftieth anniversary of the married life of the spouses. To do this, two candles painted with bronze paint (under gold) are placed on the table of the "golden newlyweds". The host says: "These two candles are a symbol of your love, which has shone for you all these years, helped to overcome all difficulties and hardships, support each other. Let's light them again so that they burn with renewed vigor for another half century!"
To make the exchange of new rings symbolic and memorable, it can be done in a church. Some couples who have not performed a wedding ceremony before do it on such a big date, because their feelings no longer need to be checked and before God they are forever husband and wife.
A circle or ring is a symbol of completeness, completeness, the cyclical nature of human life, which is probably why it became a sign of marriage. Some authors, however, compared the engagement ring with a link in the chain of married life. No wonder they say: love is a ring, and the ring has neither beginning nor end.
The rest of the guests can convey the wisdom of a happy life in marriage in a slightly different way. A large pie or kalach is baked, cut into pieces, and the heroes of the day pass them from their own hands to all married people present.
According to another custom, a solemn feast dedicated to the fiftieth anniversary of the wedding begins with kalach. But kalach is served not whole, but half of it: as a sign that half of life has been lived. Anniversaries begin to break the kalach, then the guests eat a piece, washing down the bread with a sip of vodka. The whole kalach is necessarily eaten, the further joint life of the spouses and its duration will depend on this.
At the celebration of the wedding anniversary, the couple perform a traditional dance in the circle of relatives and friends. Usually a slow melody is selected from the time of the youth of the golden spouses. Guests form a large circle, holding lighted candles in their hands. A slow dance in a luminous circle is a mesmerizing sight.
The evening can end with the throwing of the bride's bouquet. If a young woman catches him, then she will soon get married, and if she is married, she will live in marriage as long as the spouses of the anniversary.

You don’t always want to take a home holiday out of your comfort, so many decide to celebrate even such a significant occasion without leaving their native walls. And if you decide to hold the Golden Wedding at home, then it is important to take care not only of the treats and music, but also of the design and script. Let's start with decorating the room. This option is suitable for both an apartment and a private house. It's important to start with colors. Since the theme is gold, then the shades should be appropriate. You can hang golden ribbons, balloons, draw several posters, after decorating them with golden sparkles. As an original design element, you can create a collage with photos of anniversaries. Only if you do this, then it’s better to cut out two large numbers 5 and 0 and stick photos on them that have accumulated over all the joint years. You can also take into account the seasonality of marriage or dating. Surely, many have heard this amazing story. Next is the menu. It is important to take care not only of the originality of the dishes, but also of their freshness and relevance. Some invited guests, like the heroes of the occasion, will be aged, so it’s better to cook something dietary. As for the musical accompaniment, here you can successfully combine modernity with the motives of past years.

It is clear that the script is the basis of the holiday. We offer you a scenario that allows you to hold a Golden wedding at home. The material is selected for a private house, but if desired, it can also be used for an apartment, using.

Also advice, if there is not enough space in the room where the holiday is supposed to be celebrated, it is recommended to remove some of the furniture. Since the script contains a holiday for a frequent home, you can also make several photo zones.

Characters:
Presenter, guests, young people.

Props:
a diploma for young people and two gold medals, several certificates for guests, gifts for competitions, album sheets, pens, forks, blindfolds, objects, a couple of pens and sheets of paper, nuts.

The guests are seated, the host appears.

Presenter:
Today we have gathered with you
To congratulate the young
Happy Anniversary,
They lived half a century!
There will be toasts, congratulations,
And I saved the contests
I wish everyone good mood
It's time for us to celebrate!

(The heroes of the occasion enter the courtyard and sit at the head of the table.)

Presenter:
I want to convey the word
I am your parents
Like it was all yesterday
Bow to them again!

(If the parents are alive, then they say , if not, then this moment is skipped)

Presenter:
Just think, 50 years of marriage! Not everyone can boast of this. Tell Young, do you remember in detail that special day on which you exchanged rings?

(Young people talk about their wedding)

Presenter:
Congratulations will be voiced by children
And without them, nowhere,
The most beloved in the whole world,
It's time to congratulate them!

(If a couple has children, then they pronounce along with their halves).

Presenter:
Dear guests, I ask for your attention! Now there will be a small award for our beautiful Young! You know, as I have already said, it is so rare to meet people who managed to live up to the Golden Wedding, and so that you never forget about this joyful event, I hasten to award you with this diploma and medals, suitable for the anniversary.
You will need: a diploma and gold medals.

(Gives a diploma and medals)

presenter (continues):
I'm wondering how well you know each other. So many years together, they must surely know their soul mate thoroughly. Although, we will check it now!

Competition "I know everything about you."
The host gives the heroes of the occasion 3 album sheets and pens. In turn, she asks each of the spouses questions to which he must answer. The second spouse writes the correct answer on a piece of paper, and then shows the guests the result).
You will need: album sheets, pens.

Questions for the spouse:
1. How many teaspoons of sugar does your husband put in his tea?
2. On which side does he usually fall asleep?
3. How old was his first kiss?
4. What is his main hobby?
5. Favorite clothes?
6. Favorite color?
7. Favorite drinking song?

Questions for the spouse:
1. Favorite flowers?
2. Favorite movie?
3. How does she usually fall asleep?
4. What are your hobbies?
5. How do you usually spend your free time?
6. Favorite color?
7. Favorite drinking song?

(You can also have another list of questions. If you choose these, then ask to sing the last answer)

Presenter:
Congratulations continue
I give the word
Grandson, granddaughter beautiful,
I'll give up my seat in no time!

Presenter:
Something the guests got bored
I suggest you play
Diplomas, prizes, awards,
It's time for me to distribute!

Table competition "Fork".
3-4 participants are selected. For the duration of the competition, plates are taken from them, two forks are given out, and their eyes are blindfolded. An object is placed in place of the plate. The task of the participants with the help of forks is to guess what is in front of them. The winner will receive a prize.
You will need: forks, blindfolds, objects.

List of items:
1. Comb;
2. Toy "Kinder Surprise";
3. A pack of cigarettes;
4. Raw potatoes;
5. Candy (without wrapper);
6. Styrofoam;
7. Plasticine.

(Maybe another set of items)

Presenter:
Now it's time for friends
Say a few words
Wish you many years
And a shared path!

(Friends pronounce a toast. For interest, it is better before the start of the event, give each guest a line from and indicate the order)

Presenter:
I offer young people now
Repeat your first dance
Sounds like music for you
Haven't danced for a long time!

(Find out from the spouses in advance what music their first dance took place to and try to refresh their memories)

Presenter:
You friends sat up
It's time to dance
I'll turn on the music for you
I will dance with you!

(Dance break if space permits)

Presenter:
Now let's go with you
Let's play the game now
We'll dance a little
I'll bring you a chair!

Competition "I'm moving to the beat."
Several participants are selected. The contestants sit on chairs. The task is to dance without leaving your seat to rhythmic music. Who better to cope with the task, he won.

Presenter:
It is with great pleasure that I convey the word to the hosts of the event.

(Spouses pronounce)

Presenter:
I wonder how well the invited guests know our golden couple? Now we will find out!

The presenter appoints holding the "Golden Quiz".
Guests are asked questions about spouses, for each correct answer - candy. Whoever gets the most candy wins. It is better to make questions with someone from the family so that the presenter has answers. After this competition, you can drink for friends.

Presenter:
Competition prepared for you
Let's laugh now
We will read poetry
Happy Anniversary!

Competition "I can read, I can."
2 people are selected. One is given a sheet and a pen, the other whole nuts. The task is to read with nuts in your mouth. The second participant at this time should write down what they can hear. Then they change places. Whoever reproduces best will receive a prize. Alternatively, you can hold this competition with a helium balloon. One of the participants takes a breath with a balloon and reads the wish very quickly, the second must write down what he hears and then read it.
You will need: a couple of pens and sheets of paper, nuts.

(The presenter announces a musical pause, if the place does not allow, then one more)

Presenter:
Our evening is coming to an end
The sun is already going to sleep
I was glad to see you
At this wonderful, wonderful hour!
And once again, Happy Anniversary,
You live another hundred years
Love sincere, mutual,
You are a living example for everyone!
You are support and support,
You are a wonderful family
Glad to meet you,
And see you soon friends!

You can also add a few drinking songs to the script, as older people love to sing, and their repertoire is very sincere. You can, if necessary and if there is space, add more active ones.

50 years is a round date. How can this anniversary be celebrated?

Behind half a century of living together. Is it a lot or a little? Not one pound of salt has been eaten, children, grandchildren, great-grandchildren, friends are sitting nearby. Why was such a beautiful name "golden" chosen for the name of the fiftieth anniversary?

Gold is a noble yellow metal, malleable, chemically very inert, and does not change in air even when heated. Isn't the name of the anniversary fair? After all, in order to live half a century together, you need a special "flexibility", gentleness of character, the invariance of feelings even "when heated from the outside", while inertia symbolizes the constancy of direction in moving towards the goal. So in marriage, we all our lives move towards a common goal together, confident in the reliability and support of a partner.

A golden wedding is rarely celebrated, but if it is celebrated, then it becomes a really big and joyful event for the whole family of anniversaries. The Golden Wedding is a celebration that brings the whole family around the founding parents. This is a holiday that allows you to feel the cohesion and unity of the family, the traditions that have developed in it. It is the golden wedding that in many ways says that in this family love and happiness are inherited, they are a sign of this family. Next to the anniversaries is the fruit of their long life together: beloved and loving children, grandchildren, great-grandchildren ...

The golden wedding is celebrated almost as magnificently as the very first. It is important to prepare well, the surprise will be pleasant not only for the anniversaries themselves, but for the whole family. The golden wedding of parents really is a great celebration! A number of beautiful traditions and rituals are associated with the golden wedding.

The golden wedding celebrates the fiftieth anniversary of married life. In general, the golden wedding anniversary is a family holiday that unites all household members, gathers all family members around the founders, a holiday that allows you to feel the unity of relatives and friends. After all, nothing is so important for a person as a feeling of family support, a sense of belonging to something big that can protect, shelter.

The ceremony of shedding gold. At the golden wedding, the spouses are showered with gold coins, golden sparkles or confetti.

They also shower with grain and rice, wishing prosperity, happiness, prosperity, love and mutual understanding.

All guests and relatives shower the anniversaries. "As the golden rain of well-being, love, mutual understanding fell on you fifty years ago, so let it rain for another half a century!" You can shower spouses sitting at the table or entering the hall where the celebration will take place.

There is also a custom of giving a golden handkerchief to the mother. The headscarf was usually embroidered with gold threads and covered the head and shoulders of the mother by the eldest son or daughter. Today, a scarf embroidered with gold can be completely replaced with a lurex shawl.

The ceremony of tea drinking. After the holiday, the spouses sit down at an uncleaned empty table and drink a cup of tea together. And only then can the children help clear the table. This ceremony symbolizes the unity of the spouses in their own home: despite the holidays, despite the guests who usually come and go, their house is firmly supported by the two of them.

They buy a new pair of rings for a golden wedding, because the hands of the spouses have changed over the years, and the gold has worn out during this time. Of course, it is better to buy rings for children or close relatives, because shopping is no longer possible for anniversaries.

The rite of exchange of new rings.

In some regions of Russia, on the twenty-fifth wedding anniversary, spouses replace gold rings with silver ones and wear them until the golden wedding, when new gold ones are put on. Sometimes, after the twenty-fifth wedding anniversary, a silver one is put on the finger next to the gold wedding ring, and on the fiftieth wedding anniversary, both are replaced with new gold ones.

Former rings are passed on to children or grandchildren "for family happiness." This ceremony is also very symbolic, especially if a new marriage is expected in the family or it has recently taken place. It is believed that in this way, together with the rings, the wisdom is transmitted to the young, on which the marriage of grandfather and grandmother has been based for all these long years.

Sometimes the symbolic rite of transmission of conjugal wisdom was performed with the help of lit candles. They, like rings, were passed on to the young. At the same time, the spouses-anniversaries delivered a parting speech to the young for a long friendly married life.

The ceremony of lighting candles symbolizes the beginning of a new fiftieth anniversary of the married life of the spouses. To do this, two candles painted with bronze paint (under gold) are placed on the table of the "golden newlyweds".

The host says: "These two candles are a symbol of your love, which has shone on you all these years, helped to overcome all difficulties and hardships, support each other. Let's light them again so that they burn with renewed vigor for another half century!"

To make the exchange of new rings symbolic and memorable, it can be done in a church. Some couples who have not performed a wedding ceremony before do it on such a big date, because their feelings no longer need to be checked and before God they are forever husband and wife.

The circle or ring is a symbol of completeness, completeness, the cyclical nature of human life, which is probably why it has become a sign of marriage. Some authors, however, compared the engagement ring with a link in the chain of married life. No wonder they say: "Love is a ring, and the ring has neither beginning nor end."

The rest of the guests can convey the wisdom of a happy life in marriage in a slightly different way. A large pie or kalach is baked, cut into pieces, and the heroes of the day pass them from their own hands to all those present who are married.

According to another custom, a solemn feast dedicated to the fiftieth anniversary of the wedding begins with kalach. But not a whole kalach is served, but half of it: as a sign that half of life has been lived. Anniversaries begin to break the kalach, then the guests eat a piece, washing down the bread with a sip of vodka. The whole kalach is necessarily eaten, the further joint life of the spouses and its duration will depend on this.

The evening can end with the throwing of the bride's bouquet. If a young woman catches him, then she will soon get married, and if she is married, she will live in marriage as long as the spouses of the anniversary.

We associate all holidays with joy, laughter, cheerful faces and, of course, with gifts. A gift can be made expensive or cheap, but if it is made with love and from the heart, it will certainly bring joy to the heroes of the occasion. After all, the most important thing in this case is attention.

Presentation of gifts can be arranged in the same way as at the very first wedding, accompanying gifts with poems, congratulations, and humorous parting words.

For a golden wedding, spouses are given gold jewelry, golden metal souvenirs, or any other gifts wrapped in beautiful golden gift paper.

What gift to choose? Best of all, of course, if it will have a symbolic load.

For example, a gilded candlestick for two candles can be presented with the words:

"As this candlestick holds two candles, so may your love keep you forever near and never stop.

And may joy and happiness burn in your souls like these two lights!"

Wall clock in a gilded frame. Accompanying words: "Here's a clock for you, measure time for the next fifty years!"

Large wedding photograph in a gilded frame. Accompanying speech: "And here is your wedding photo for the beginning of a new life! And the frame is gold, live on, live more, and we will wait for the next wedding photo in an emerald frame."

Pood weight (16kg), painted with golden paint. Accompanying words: "Here, the bride and groom, we give you a pood of gold. This is a monument to that pood of salt that you ate over the past half century! Keep it up! Let there be 2-3 more such monuments ...". Such a gift is good for spouses with a certain sense of humor.

Photo album. A beautiful anniversary album for the 50th wedding anniversary is prepared by the children in advance, for this, all the photographs are collected from year to year, if possible: "Mom and dad a year after the wedding", "Mom and dad two years later", "Helen was born", " Vasenka got married", etc. A personalized album with gold embossing looks beautiful, for example: "Ivanov Andrey Petrovich and Valentina Ivanovna 50 years of marriage."

If you want to present something truly original to the heroes of the occasion, then order the portrait of the spouses with the whole family to the artist.

To do this, it is not necessary to pose for several hours, it is enough just to provide a photo of the family, the rest is the skill of the artist.

A gift associated with the symbolic number 50 is possible. For example, you can give 50 tea roses, 50 balloons, 50 large yellow apples or golden oranges.

You can also order a couple of anniversary medals with names and dates for such a big holiday. Or an engraved congratulation on a large gift platter. Give, in the end, a big cake with a congratulatory inscription!

You always want to celebrate such a big celebration cheerfully, so that it is remembered. It is best to invite a toastmaster or try to write the script yourself and try yourself as a host. You can hold contests and lotteries.

Toasts and congratulations can be as follows:

Dear (names of spouses-anniversaries)! What a joy that we are present today at this wonderful jubilee.

You are proof that a long happy marriage is possible. Live long and remain for all of us a vivid example that everything in this life is surmountable, that with love everything is achievable and possible! And let them shout that there is no eternal love and happy marriages are an exception, we can always say: "It's not true, in our family there has always been, is and will be love and happiness that are inherited!" We count on you! And now "Bitter!"

Let's drink to our family's legacy. Not for rings, chains, earrings, but for our parents, our treasure, rich in golden hands, golden hearts, golden words! If we didn’t have all this wealth, we wouldn’t have such a large, close-knit family gathered today at this table. We drink to mother's golden hands, who nursed us all, to father's golden hands, who built this house, caressed all of us, to a pair of golden hearts that love us, to two golden souls, rooting for us, wherever we are, for golden wise words that help us live and not make mistakes. That's how much we have! No bank has so much wealth, no one is immune from ruin like we are.

Let's drink to the golden heritage of our family! For our parents!

Golden color is the color of autumn leaves, and autumn is the time for harvesting the fruits of labor. Our parents worked hard, but here are the fruits around the table: children from young to old, from schoolchildren to professors and bosses. Let's drink to the fact that each of those sitting at the table could in the future reach the joyful time of the autumn of married life, when it will be possible to count their "chickens"! For the golden time of married life!

To live to see a golden wedding, the wife must have a golden character, and the husband must have iron restraint! Let's drink to a wonderful alloy, to the flourishing of domestic metallurgy!

Gold and silver by themselves mean nothing. It is necessary that the master had golden hands. So let's drink to the golden hands of the owners of this house!

This scenario is designed for a celebration in the family circle. The celebration is led by the son or daughter of the heroes of the occasion.

Traditions are written in the script. Each congratulation is accompanied by beautiful verses.
Non-vulgar and interesting competitions will be held.

Leading :

Only once in a lifetime does a wedding happen
Gold is even rarer these days.
But when this holiday falls,
The lights are brighter in the sky.

Let's gather again in a family circle,
We have a great reason.
Have fun until you drop, we swear
Congratulations have been prepared for you.

Dear daddy and mommy! Thank you for being in our life.


We are glad that 50 years ago you started a family and now we, your children, stand before you with eyes full of gratitude and love. Happy holiday, our dear ones. And, as they shouted to you many years ago, we will repeat: BITTER!



Parents exchange a kiss

Leading :
And I want to offer the first toast to you, dear parents, for the fact that we have all gathered together today to meet your golden wedding!
Drinking, eating

Leading :
Today, dear parents, you are newlyweds again, so do not forget to respond if you are addressed like that! There is an old beautiful ceremony - on the day of the golden wedding, the newlyweds are sprinkled with gold. This is what we will do now.



Music turns on, children run up and shower the heroes of the occasion with confetti or golden sparkles

Leading :

On this day, we wish you good health
Longevity, happy years.
We congratulate you, we congratulate you,
We love you, it's no secret!

Leading :
And our dear guests want to bring the warmest words of congratulations to you _________ - Provides the word .


Leading :
I propose to fill the glasses and raise them for such beautiful and good words. Happy golden wedding to you, my dear parents!
Raising glasses, drinking

Leading :

How good it is to love
Give warmth and tenderness to each other,
And know what is on the planet
Those who are the happiest in the world!
Surrounded by your love
And immersed in your happiness!

Indeed, it is good to be loved and to love. You are always for us - an example of how people can relate to each other.

And even in our family, we will always try to have the same warm and faithful relationship as you have! Let's remember how it was...


Your first dance seems to be so far away, but I think that you will remember it and make us happy with it. Mom and dad, the melody of your first dance sounds for you, your children and grandchildren have not seen it, but we really want to take a look at it at least with an eye!
Dance of the parents

Leading :
For such warmth and tenderness,
Words spoken in a dance
For your happiness and, of course, courage,
Let's drink together for love!
Drinking, eating

Leading :
Dear friends! A lot has changed over the years. The kids have grown up and you have changed a bit. But that won't stop us from having the wedding ceremony again right now.

Bridegroom, bride, we ask you to stand up and again swear an oath to honest people.


Bride! Are you ready to endure your spouse for many more years? To be with him in joy and in anguish, to help solve crossword puzzles and scratch his back, to quickly respond to all the requests of the groom. Do you agree?
The bride answers

Do you agree, fiance? Count not gray hair, but flowers for a festive bouquet by March 8, love and appreciate taking care of yourself and children, always say that your little wife is the most beautiful girl and by no means a grandmother! Do you agree?
The groom answers

I pronounce you husband and wife!

I ask you to exchange new rings, because from this day you begin a completely new life.

Leading :
Let's raise our glasses, let's drink to the young!

Leading :
Dear our parents! Many years ago, you lit the flame of your love for each other in your hearts and carried this love through the years.

Let's light two candles of your love so that it lasts for at least another half a century.

Husband and wife light candles and put them near them

May this flame never go out. And this candle will certainly not end, there will be enough wax in your souls to keep this light for many, many more years!


Leading :
But don't be discouraged, let's dance!

Right now, I suggest everyone to warm up a bit. We will dance, of course, to the hits of your favorite time.

Dance break 10-15 minutes


Leading :
Friends, now I will tell you the type of activity or some hero, and you will dance exactly as I suggest to you!

  • country girl;
  • old grandmother;
  • A man who wants to meet a lady
  • Angry husband;
  • Affectionate wife.

Well done! You're doing great, keep dancing.

Leading :
And now I propose to drink for all those people who have delighted my own parents for many years.

These are friends and relatives who have gathered today in such a cozy and family atmosphere to congratulate you from the bottom of their hearts.


Let's drink to you, dear guests. Health and happiness to you!
Leading :
Now we are waiting for a response, or rather, a toast or congratulations from guests who have not yet spoken. Word _______ - Calls out a name

Everyone drinks and eats
Leading :
Newlyweds, do you remember everything about your relationship and its origin? Let's check it out.

Questions for the groom:

  • The color of your mother's dress when you first met?
  • What name did you dream of naming your first child?
  • Anniversary of your relationship (not wedding)?
  • What is the craziest thing a lady has ever done?
  • And now the most difficult: the first kiss, where and when?

Questions for the bride:

  • Where did dad confess his love to you?
  • What's the nicest gift your dad gave you?
  • What impressed you the most about him?
  • What did you do on the first date?
  • And how did you conquer him?

Leading :
Well, well, you did a good job! Let's raise our glasses so that the good memory of the past nourishes the present and rejoices in the future! For you, dear parents!

"Golden Wedding" - 50 years of marriage. A golden wedding is a significant date, like gold, which is considered one of the most expensive materials. After all, it is not without reason that Olympic champions are awarded gold in order to emphasize the significance of the victory achieved by hard work. The golden wedding is the day when the spouses are congratulated and rejoice for their strong union. For the 50th anniversary of the wedding, the spouses give each other gold jewelry as a sign of devotion and love, because the anniversary of the golden wedding speaks of mutual great love. For 50 years of weddings, relatives, friends and witnesses are usually invited, who 50 years ago witnessed the conclusion of such a long marriage. As a gift for a golden wedding, guests present: gilded things-frames, jewelry, watches, etc. A golden wedding is a day that can be celebrated in many ways: either resort to companies that will offer you a golden wedding scenario, or celebrate a golden wedding at home, with a rich table, at which relatives and children bring their congratulations to spouses, and they, in turn, will remember together lived years. You can also look at happy couples by typing on the Internet: download the golden wedding, and be happy for yourself and the people who have been able to keep love and fidelity for so many years.

Congratulations:
I wish you a good journey
Walk this path with friends
Health so as not to take
And never be discouraged.
Smiles, joy, good luck,
Live to a hundred! And not otherwise

Decor.
Setting up a meeting room is easy. A poster hangs on the back wall, the number “50” is written in some “golden” paint, bordered by laurel wreaths of the corresponding color.
In the middle of the room are placed two chairs for the "golden" anniversaries. A table is placed in the foreground, behind which is the leader - the performer of the ceremony. Relatives and participants of the meeting are located a little further.

The scenario of the celebration should be drawn up taking into account the specific situation, the nature of the people to whom the celebration is dedicated, their desires and the peculiarities of copyright-by-holiday family relations. "Golden" anniversaries send invitations to their loved ones and relatives in advance.
On the appointed day, 10-15 minutes before the start of the celebration, when the meeting participants, relatives and invitees take their places, the heroes of the day are located in another room.

When the music starts, the jubilees enter accompanied by the children. The song falls silent, against the background of the melody in the recording, verses sound:
soldered by earthly love,
United for years
Generations meet here:
An alloy of wisdom and gold.

The leader of the meeting addresses the attendee.

Leading.
Welcome dear guests! Today we congratulate the "golden" anniversaries. Let today be for each of us one of the most important days and joyful events. Dear guests! At this hour, we greet the "golden" anniversaries-spouses _____________________________ (last name, first name, patronymic of the spouses).
Fanfares are heard, then music is softly played. Accompanied by two girls with a basket of flowers in their hands, the "golden" anniversaries go to their places. During their procession, the leader briefly talks about them: when and where their marriage is registered, what are their main labor merits, how many children they raised, etc. The participants of the meeting took their places, the music stops. The performer of the ceremony addresses those present.
Leading.
On behalf of your family and friends, I want to present you with a symbolic marriage certificate. Your strong family is not only your joy, the joy of your children and relatives. This is the joy of all your friends. Happy holiday, our beloved ones.

The honoring of the "golden" anniversaries should be most solemn, sincere and touching. Before the address of the host to the "golden" anniversaries, the following words are heard in the tape recording to the music:
All golden weddings, there are no simple ones,
When love, how the heart beats in them.
This couple has silver in their curls,
It's like a crane feather
Their union is high and poetic,
And the burden of years of such love is not a burden,
Blessed is the life that is so bright.
You can’t say about her, they say, she was,
She's there forever, forever!

Host (referring to the "golden" anniversaries).
Dear _____________________________________________ (names, patronymics of the anniversaries)! Today marks the 50th anniversary of your married life. Half a century ago, young, happy, you entered into family life. No wonder the years have flown by. Behind many bright, memorable days. Your life experience has ripened into golden wisdom.

The host briefly talks about the life path of the heroes of the day.

Leading.
There have been trials and tribulations in your life. But you were always together, grief and copyright-by-holiday shared joy in half. You managed to keep a strong and friendly family. Through a lifetime
carried loyalty to each other, loyalty to their cause. Dear anniversaries! Let the baton of your wonderful family life and love be passed on from generation to generation.

Music sounds.

Leading.
We ask relatives, friends and workmates to congratulate our meeting participants.

The participants of the meeting are congratulated in turn by relatives, comrades at work and friends. Music sounds.

Leading.
Allow me to once again congratulate our dear anniversaries on a significant event in their lives, wish them the very best, the brightest. May the baton of your wonderful life and love be passed on from generation to generation. Good luck!

Sounds "Zazdravnaya" I. Dunayevsky. And the feasting begins.
Presenter:
Today joy and fun
Both relatives and friends,
Came to celebrate with the mood
Your twenty-fifth anniversary!
Did you know love and tenderness,
Hand in hand walked through life,
Warmth of feelings, warmth and fidelity
You have saved for ages!
So let the time of happiness last
For many long, long years;
Pass on to your children and grandchildren
Life's trade secret!

Presenter:
25 is not that much
It's only halfway.
A long life ahead
You still have to go through together.
Everything happens in life
Fate is patient with you:
Made friends, got married
Made it to silver.
Silver wedding for you
Knocked on the threshold.
This day is so happy
He helped us all get together.
We wish our couple
Have fun, don't get sick
With a mutual spirit
To your happiness to see!
Let's drink to the anniversaries!

For men:
O The decision to marry was your last independent decision.
O Carry your wife in your arms, and she will sit on your neck herself.
O You should help your wife on March 8, but on the rest of the days, do everything yourself.
O When walking with your wife, do not look to the left, as you may not notice that she is looking to the right.
O Getting up in the morning, kiss your wife, maybe you will be the first.
O Love and respect your wife, but do not allow her to be the mistress of the house, be the master yourself, so that, escaping from the wrath of your wife, sitting under the table, you can say to everyone: “I am the master of the house! Wherever I want, I sit there!

Women:
O If the husband came home late, give him the opportunity to tell what you have known for a long time.
O In money matters observe a strict division of labor. Leave the important and honorable right to earn money to your husband. And take on the difficult, difficult task of spending them. You have to give in at least something.
O It is strictly forbidden to tease and call your husband the names of the inhabitants of the zoo!
O Never argue with your husband, but start crying right away.
O If the husband starts to work late, change the husband's profession.
O Love and take care of your husband and his nervous system, never tell him the true cost of purchases.
Maybe we got it mixed up when we poured invaluable experience into verbal form ... But even if so, do not be angry with us, because our intentions were the same - to amuse all our honest company!

Presenter:

"Body parts":
For her, you need to prepare in advance two identical sets of pieces of paper on which parts of the body are written: head, back, arm, chest, buttocks, leg, etc., to the best of your imagination and the degree of looseness of the company. Then each set is placed in a separate box (hat). It is desirable that the boxes are somehow different. This is necessary so that in the future the sets of pieces of paper do not mix. Then all those present are divided into boy-girl pairs. Then a pair is chosen to start the game. Each is given a personal set of papers. To begin with, everyone randomly pulls out one piece of paper from their set. For example, a man pulls out a piece of paper “hand”, and a lady gets “back”. With these parts of the body, they must touch. Next, the participants pull out one more piece of paper. Now they must, while maintaining their previous contacts, come into contact with new parts of the body. And so on. During the game, the posture can and should be constantly changed. After the couple pulls out the third or fourth piece of paper, it is usually impossible to stand on your feet. This is where auxiliary tools come into play - chairs, a sofa, a floor. Any furniture is allowed. The game continues until the couple can no longer keep in contact at the same time all those parts of the body, the indications for which they pulled out. Then the next pair is called, the papers are placed in boxes, and everything starts anew. Spectators have every right to advise the players, offering their own options for various positions. The winner is the pair that managed to keep the largest number of contacts at the same time.
Presenter: (to the couple who turned out to be the winner): Congratulations on your ability to hold on tightly to each other in any position. I think that __________ and __________ (names of anniversaries) will take an example from you in this. Perhaps you will need this prize... (He rewards the couple with a bottle of stationery glue).

Presenter:
So empty bottles appeared on our table. Now we can finally announce Spin the Bottle! Whom the bottle points to, he takes a card with a word, and we will explain the meaning of this word in our kissing game.

"Bottle":
The bottle is spun on a tray of cards; during the game, the cards are sorted out in turn by those whom the bottle points to. Here are the words and their meanings:
Fur - kiss the neighbors of all.
Pipes - kiss a neighbor on the lips.
Point - whoever you want, kiss on the cheek.
Arrow - let the girls kiss you.
Fingers - let the boys kiss you.
The host can put the cards back until all the guests kiss each other.

Presenter:
But we have a couple more wishes, but not simple ones, but personal ones! This is for you, __________ (husband's name):
25 years you have already lived
With dear wife,
Does the saddle press hard on you?
Is the girth tight?
You've already begun to understand
How is marriage.
Who rules over you
At the table and in a fight?
Or do you not hit her?
Dove more and more
Gently press to your heart
Will you buy a ring?
Well done, you found out
How to achieve everything.
Fly away from accusations
From the nest of a titmouse.

And this is for you, __________ (wife's name):
25 years you lived
With my beloved hubby
She gave birth to two sons
For him, loved ones.
Father-in-law dreams of fishing -
"Break out of the house,
Yes, take it with you
Dear husband."
Well, don't be a simpleton;
A friend called
Stay and sleep
Sleep without a spouse.
Let him snore alone in bed
Breakfast will be prepared
And by the end of such a week
He will howl with anguish.
Then ask him
Fur coat or sheepskin coat,
Explain what is warm in it
Let him spare no money.

Presenter:
And now I invite everyone to take part in one unusual relay race. The most important thing here is not to pay attention to anyone, to be guided only by your own imagination and ingenuity. The main thing is to run from one chair to another, and make it the most interesting. So let's get ready to start...
Run in a triangle! No, not three people and not a triangle, but a triangle. How do triangles run?
Now, in the other direction, run in a dotted line! They ran in squares, in an oblique line, in a column, soft-boiled ...
In this competition, everything is decided by the host's imagination and the ingenuity of the players. The winner, who is chosen by the hosts of the holiday, gets the right to say a toast.

Presenter:
Respectable people gathered at the table. And the question arose among women: “What is love?”
One woman says: "Love is probably a disease."
The doctor gets up: “No, this is not a disease. Most likely, this is work, because a very large amount of energy is released.
The architect stands up: “Well, what kind of work is this? Because everything is so perfect. Rather, it is art."
An art critic stands up: “No, no. Art needs an audience. And it happens one on one. Rather, it is a process."
A lawyer stands up: “What kind of process is it when two parties are satisfied. Rather, it is science."
An old professor gets up: “What kind of science is this when every young student can, but I, an old professor, cannot!”
So let's drink to the eternal students! In love!

"Congratulations from the circus":
Under the musical intro to the program “In the World of Animals”, two guests appear in the hall, one in the form of a trainer, the other a monkey, which can be dressed in black or brown tights. The face is under the mask.
Animal trainer: Mickey, say hello to the guests!
(The monkey bows picturesquely, almost thrusting his head between his legs and moving his hands back)
Trainer: Mickey, now welcome the guests!
(Monkey claps his hands)
Trainer: Mickey, did you want to say something to the anniversaries?
(The monkey actively nods its head and hums)
Trainer: Well, say so, and I will translate your speech.
(The monkey, screaming, beats his chest with his fists and utters the cry of Tarzan)
Trainer: A faction of chimpanzees and gorillas in our zoo...
(The monkey jumps in place, screaming, turning around itself)
Trainer: ...with great joy and enthusiasm...
(The monkey approaches the trainer, hugs him and kisses him three times)
Trainer:... met the news...
(The monkey clicks on its neck - makes a gesture that means "drink")
Animal Trainer: ...about your upcoming anniversary.
(Monkey lets out Tarzan's cry again)
Trainer: A faction of chimpanzees and gorillas in our zoo...
(The monkey "tearing a vest on his chest")
Trainer:...wishing you with all my heart...
(The monkey hugs and kisses the anniversaries and guests)
Trainer:...happiness in your personal life...
(The monkey takes out a purse from the trainer's pocket, puts a leaf of greenery or a paper napkin into it)
Animal trainer: ... a lot, a lot of money ...
(The monkey pulls out a pack of cigarettes from another pocket of the trainer, tears it up, throws it on the floor and tramples)
Trainer: ...and good health and moderation in everything!
(The monkey enthusiastically begins to look in the head for an insect trainer)
Trainer: And also a complete immersion in nirvana.
(The monkey jumps into the hands of the trainer)
Trainer: Let the children give you many grandchildren...
(The monkey jumps on the trainer's back)
Trainer: ... and grandchildren - great-grandchildren.
(The monkey jumps in place, turning around itself)
Trainer: And of course, it's fun to celebrate the anniversary day...
(The monkey takes out a bundle of bananas stored in advance nearby and carries it to the hero of the day)
Trainer:...why the monkeys of our zoo give you the most valuable thing they have...
(The monkey hugs and kisses the hero of the day)
Animal trainer: ...and invited to spend the holidays in their company.
(The monkey returns to the trainer, clapping his hands)
Trainer: Once again, congratulations on the anniversary and join all the congratulations.
(Monkey bows)
Trainer: Goodbye!
(The monkey, with a frightened look, points his finger at the window to the trainer and, while he listens and tries to understand what is happening there, pulls the bottle off the table and runs away with a cheerful cry.)

Presenter:

"The investigation is led by a musician":
The facilitator encourages the participants to restore the lyrics of the song. For example, the last words of each of the four lines are given: birth, give, spring, speak. Therefore, we can understand that the next song is encrypted. I can’t give you a birthday
Giving expensive gifts
But on these spring nights,
I can talk about love.

Blanks:

1. A dolphin fell in love with a mermaid with a deep, reverent love.
He kept her light sleep, carried pearls to her head.
He forgot that he was a dolphin, he forgot his own family,
He flew from the depths of the sea in the hope of a timid kiss.

2. Old maple, old maple,
Old maple knocks on glass
Inviting us with friends for a walk,
Why, why
Why is it so bright for me?
Because you're walking down the alley!

3. Yellow guitar bend
You hug softly
Echo Shard String
Pierces the tight height...

4. The train will go to Tikhoretskaya.
The trailer will move, the platform will remain.
Brick wall, station clock,
white handkerchiefs white handkerchiefs
Handkerchiefs are white, eyes are sad.

5. In autumn on a rainy gray day
A deer ran through the city
He ran along the echoing pavement
A red forest shot by an arrow.

6. Don't overthink seconds.
When the time comes, you will understand.
They whistle like bullets at the temple
Moments, moments, moments.

Presenter:
"Understand me!":
In this game, there are two competitors who want to show off the level of their mutual understanding. Anniversaries themselves can take part in it, if they wish. What you need to play:
O Large print text
The first participant, looking at the text that the leader holds in front of him, must convey its content to the second participant with facial expressions and gestures, who, trying to understand the message, explains it.

Examples of texts for "transmission":

1. Once upon a time there was an eared Elephant in hot Africa. And although the Baby Elephant was very small, he was already friends with the huge Rhinoceros and the hairy Gorilla. All three of them splashed in muddy puddles, ate juicy bananas and basked in the African sun. Once, when a baby elephant was drinking water from a river, a toothy crocodile grabbed him by the trunk. But a huge Rhinoceros and a hairy Gorilla rushed to the aid of the eared Elephant. The rhinoceros stepped on the crocodile's paw, and the gorilla bit him on the tail. The crocodile howled in pain and released the Baby Elephant. So friendship conquered evil and deceit.

2. Once I turned on the TV and started watching my favorite program “Good night, kids!”. Only Khryusha and Stepashka greeted me, when suddenly they started to fight! I climbed into the TV to separate them. Khryusha gave me a hoof in the eye, and Stepashka bit me on the ear, but I said: “Sailors don’t give up!” and grabbed Piggy by the tail, and Stepashka by the ears. Khryusha and Stepashka immediately drooped and asked me for forgiveness, I let them go, got out of the TV and did not watch “Good night, kids!” anymore, but began to watch an erotic film.

Presenter:

"Road of Happiness":
Two teams compete: who has the longest road of happiness. You need to take off your things (even down to your underpants) and lay them out in one length, whoever got the longer road won.

Presenter:

"Musical competition":
We invite you to hold a music competition. We will compete in the knowledge of love songs. Let's try to remember as many love songs as possible and recite or sing a few lines from them. The last one wins. (The song named last is sung in its entirety. The winner gets a prize - a raw egg for healing the vocal cords.)

Presenter:
"Scarecrow":
Two teams of 3 people each (1 girl and 2 guys, it's more fun). The girl gets between the guys, and they have to dress the girl in a minute, but only with the clothes that they themselves have on (watches and rings are also considered). Accordingly, the team with the most clothes on the girl wins.

Presenter:
"Masquerade":
"WEDDING" penetrated the well-known phrases. She swallowed various words. It is required to remove the alien and restore justice. For example: "Weddings are counted in the fall" - "Chickens are counted in the fall." If everything is clear to everyone, then you can start. If not, then we'll start anyway.
-There will be a wedding on our street.
- Dashing wedding beginning.
-Wedding is worse than bondage.
-Before the wedding, do not inhale.
-Wash your hands before the wedding.
-Weddings! Let's live in peace!
- Nu, wedding, wait a minute!

Answers:
-Every dog ​​has his day.
-Down and Out trouble started.
-Hunting is worse than bondage.
-While there is life there is hope.
-Wash your hands before eating.
-Guys! Let's live in peace!
- Well, hare, wait!

Presenter:

"Princess on the Pea":
Only women participate in the game. It is necessary to put stools (or chairs without upholstery) in a row according to the number of expected participants (3-4 is best). A certain number of round caramels are placed on each stool (there are such sweets, they are small koloboks in shape), you can use buttons on the leg (preferably larger). For example, on the first stool - 3 sweets, on the second - 2, on the third - 4. From above, the stools are covered with opaque plastic bags. The preparations are finished. Those who wish are called. They are seated on stools. The music turns on. We usually include the song "Move your booty" for this contest. And so, dancing, sitting on a stool, the participants must determine how many sweets are under them. The one who does it faster and more correctly will win.
50 years is a round date. How can this anniversary be celebrated?
Behind half a century of living together. Is it a lot or a little? Not one pound of salt has been eaten, children, grandchildren, great-grandchildren, friends are sitting nearby. Why was such a beautiful name “golden” chosen for the name of the fiftieth anniversary?
Gold is a noble yellow metal, malleable, chemically very inert, and does not change in air even when heated. Isn't the name of the anniversary fair? After all, in order to live together for half a century, you need a special "flexibility", gentleness of character, the invariability of feelings even "when heated from the outside", while inertia symbolizes the constancy of direction in moving towards the goal. So in marriage, we all our lives move towards a common goal together, confident in the reliability and support of a partner.
A golden wedding is rarely celebrated, but if it is celebrated, then it becomes a really big and joyful event for the whole family of anniversaries. The Golden Wedding is a celebration that gathers the whole family around the founding parents. This is a holiday that allows you to feel the cohesion and unity of the family, the traditions that have developed in it. It is the golden wedding that in many ways says that in this family love and happiness are inherited, they are a sign of this family. Next to the anniversaries is the fruit of their long life together: beloved and loving children, grandchildren, great-grandchildren ...
The golden wedding is celebrated almost as magnificently as the very first. It is important to prepare well, the surprise will be pleasant not only for the anniversaries themselves, but for the whole family. The golden wedding of parents is a really big holiday! A number of beautiful traditions and rituals are associated with the golden wedding.
The golden wedding celebrates the fiftieth anniversary of married life. In general, the anniversary of the golden wedding is a family holiday, uniting all household members, gathering all family members around the founders, a holiday that allows you to feel the unity of relatives and friends. After all, nothing is so important for a person as a feeling of family support, a sense of belonging to something big that can protect, shelter.
The ceremony of shedding gold. At the golden wedding, the spouses are showered with gold coins, golden sparkles or confetti.
They also shower with grain and rice, wishing prosperity, happiness, prosperity, love and mutual understanding.
All guests and relatives shower the anniversaries. “As the golden rain of well-being, love, mutual understanding fell on you fifty years ago, so let it rain for another half a century!” You can shower spouses sitting at the table or entering the hall where the celebration will take place.
There is also a custom of giving a golden handkerchief to the mother. The headscarf was usually embroidered with gold threads and covered the head and shoulders of the mother by the eldest son or daughter. Today, a scarf embroidered with gold can be completely replaced with a lurex shawl.
The ceremony of tea drinking. After the holiday, the spouses sit down at an uncleaned empty table and drink a cup of tea together. And only then can the children help clear the table. This ceremony symbolizes the unity of the spouses in their own home: despite the holidays, despite the guests who usually come and go, their house is firmly supported by the two of them.
They buy a new pair of rings for a golden wedding, because the hands of the spouses have changed over the years, and the gold has worn out during this time. Of course, it is better to buy rings for children or close relatives, because shopping is no longer possible for anniversaries.
The rite of exchange of new rings.
In some regions of Russia, on the twenty-fifth wedding anniversary, spouses replace gold rings with silver ones and wear them until the golden wedding, when new gold ones are put on. Sometimes, after the twenty-fifth wedding anniversary, a silver one is put on the finger next to the gold wedding ring, and on the fiftieth wedding anniversary, both are replaced with new gold ones.
Former rings are passed on to children or grandchildren "for family happiness." This ceremony is also very symbolic, especially if a new marriage is expected in the family or it has recently taken place. It is believed that in this way, together with the rings, the wisdom is transmitted to the young, on which the marriage of grandfather and grandmother has been based for all these long years.
Sometimes the symbolic rite of transmission of conjugal wisdom was performed with the help of lit candles. They, like rings, were passed on to the young. At the same time, the spouses-anniversaries delivered a parting speech to the young for a long friendly married life.
The ceremony of lighting candles symbolizes the beginning of a new fiftieth anniversary of the married life of the spouses. To do this, two candles painted with bronze paint (under gold) are placed on the table of the “golden newlyweds”.
The host says: “These two candles are a symbol of your love, which has been shining on you all these years, helping to overcome all difficulties and hardships, to support each other. Let's light them up again so that they burn with renewed vigor for another half century!
To make the exchange of new rings symbolic and memorable, it can be done in a church. Some couples who have not performed a wedding ceremony before do it on such a big date, because their feelings no longer need to be checked and before God they are forever husband and wife.
A circle or a ring is a symbol of completeness, completeness, the cyclical nature of human life, which is probably why it became a sign of marriage. Some authors, however, compared the engagement ring with a link in the chain of married life. No wonder they say: "Love is a ring, and the ring has neither beginning nor end."
The rest of the guests can convey the wisdom of a happy life in marriage in a slightly different way. A large pie or kalach is baked, cut into pieces, and the heroes of the day pass them from their own hands to all those present who are married.
According to another custom, a solemn feast dedicated to the fiftieth anniversary of the wedding begins with kalach. But not a whole kalach is served, but half of it: as a sign that half of life has been lived. Anniversaries begin to break the kalach, then the guests eat a piece, washing down the bread with a sip of vodka. The whole kalach is necessarily eaten, the further joint life of the spouses and its duration will depend on this.
The evening can end with the throwing of the bride's bouquet. If a young woman catches him, then she will soon get married, and if she is married, she will live in marriage as long as the spouses of the anniversary.
We associate all holidays with joy, laughter, cheerful faces and, of course, with gifts. A gift can be made expensive or cheap, but if it is made with love and from the heart, it will certainly bring joy to the heroes of the occasion. After all, the most important thing in this case is attention.
Presentation of gifts can be arranged in the same way as at the very first wedding, accompanying gifts with poems, congratulations, and humorous parting words.
For a golden wedding, spouses are given gold jewelry, golden metal souvenirs, or any other gifts wrapped in beautiful golden gift paper.
What gift to choose? Best of all, of course, if it will have a symbolic load.
For example, a gilded candlestick for two candles can be presented with the words:
“As this candlestick holds two candles, so may your love keep you forever near and never stop.
And may joy and happiness burn in your souls like these two lights!”
Wall clock in a gilded frame. Accompanying words: “Here is a clock for you, measure time for the next fifty years!”
Large wedding photograph in a gilded frame. Accompanying speech: “And here is a wedding photo for you at the beginning of a new life! And the frame is gold, live on, live more, and we will wait for the next wedding photo in an emerald frame.
Pood weight (16kg), painted with golden paint. Accompanying words: “Here, the bride and groom, we give you a pood of gold. This is a monument to that pood of salt that you have eaten over the past half century! Keep it up! Let there be 2-3 more such monuments…”. Such a gift is good for spouses with a certain sense of humor.
Photo album. A beautiful anniversary album for the 50th wedding anniversary is prepared by the children in advance; for this, all the photographs are collected from year to year, if possible: “Mom and dad a year after the wedding”, “Mom and dad two years later”, “Helen was born”, “ Vasenka got married”, etc. The personalized album with gold embossing looks beautiful, for example: "Ivanov Andrey Petrovich and Valentina Ivanovna - 50 years of marriage."
If you want to present something truly original to the heroes of the occasion, then order the portrait of the spouses with the whole family to the artist.
To do this, it is not necessary to pose for several hours, it is enough just to provide a photograph of the family, the rest is the skill of the artist.
A gift associated with the symbolic number 50 is possible. For example, you can give 50 tea roses, 50 balloons, 50 large yellow apples or golden oranges.
You can also order a couple of anniversary medals with names and dates for such a big holiday. Or an engraved congratulation on a large gift platter. Give, in the end, a big cake with a congratulatory inscription!
You always want to celebrate such a big celebration cheerfully, so that it is remembered. It is best to invite a toastmaster or try to write the script yourself and try yourself as a host. You can hold contests and lotteries.
Toasts and congratulations can be as follows:
Dear (names of spouses-anniversaries)! What a joy that we are present today at this wonderful jubilee.
You are proof that a long happy marriage is possible. Live long and remain for all of us a vivid example that everything in this life is surmountable, that with love everything is achievable and possible! And let them shout that there is no eternal love and happy marriages are an exception, we can always say: “It’s not true, in our family there has always been, is and will be love and happiness that are inherited!” We count on you! And now - "Bitter!"
Let's drink to our family's legacy. Not for rings, chains, earrings, but for our parents, our treasure, rich in golden hands, golden hearts, golden words! If we didn’t have all this wealth, we wouldn’t have such a large, close-knit family gathered today at this table. We drink to mother's golden hands, who nursed us all, to father's golden hands, who built this house, caressed all of us, to a pair of golden hearts that love us, to two golden souls, rooting for us, wherever we are, for golden wise words that help us live and not make mistakes. That's how much we have! No bank has so much wealth, no one is immune from ruin like we are.
Let's drink to the golden heritage of our family! For our parents!
Golden color is the color of autumn leaves, and autumn is the time for harvesting the fruits of labor. Our parents worked hard, but the fruits are around the table: children from young to old, from schoolchildren to professors and bosses. Let's drink to the fact that each of those sitting at the table could in the future reach the joyful time of the autumn of married life, when it will be possible to count their "chickens"! For the golden time of married life!
To live to see a golden wedding, the wife must have a golden character, and the husband must have iron restraint! Let's drink to a wonderful alloy, to the flourishing of domestic metallurgy!
Gold and silver by themselves mean nothing. It is necessary that the master had golden hands. So let's drink to the golden hands of the owners of this house!
50 years is a round date. How can this anniversary be celebrated? Behind half a century of living together. Is it a lot or a little? Not one pound of salt has been eaten, children, grandchildren, great-grandchildren, friends are sitting nearby. Why was such a beautiful name "golden" chosen for the name of the fiftieth anniversary?
Gold is a noble yellow metal, malleable, chemically very inert, and does not change in air even when heated. Isn't it fair, because in order to live half a century together, you need a special "flexibility", gentleness of character, the invariance of feelings even "when heated from the outside", while inertia symbolizes the constancy of direction in moving towards the goal. So in marriage we are all the same

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